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Nice girl. Shame about the face.
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What the hell is so wrong with her face shape that is a total turnoff???
is it potato shaped like the guy from mask?
Like the how to pull girls in 5 easy steps, how shallow could you be?
I came out of uni with an overdraft to pay off and a poorly paid job. My boyfriend also has debts from uni to pay off. We're both on about £15k now but I was on much less until 3 months ago. We live in a rented house, its shabby but cheap. We were without a fridge and washer for 2 months before we could afford to buy them. There's a million things wrong with the house and we haven't got a lot of spending money, especially because we're saving up a deposit for a house
But we make the effort to do things together with the little money we have. We bought cheap bikes (£15) from the free ads and go cycling. We bought a second hand tent for a tenner and we're made up with it. We trade in clubcard vouchers for a meal out and a takeaway is a treat. But its something we can do together and we cherish it. And believe me, being without a washer and a fridge for 2 months you really appreciate it when it comes! We bought them together and they're ours. That feels pretty great to us
For me our quality of life is actually improved because we really fucking appreciate what we have got
Don't get me wrong, I look forward to being comfortably off one day, and I know we will be. But having money in our relationship is far from being important. Living life together is important, getting through the bad times and making good times from what you've got, not what you wish you had
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POTW in my opinion :yes: I totally agree with you and am glad you said it.
I totally appreciate thats a different situation altogether (which is why as much as I'd love to get pregnant and have loads of kids right now we're waiting until we've got a bit of money behind us because we can cope being skint but its different when kids are involved)
However, I still stand by what I said - money isn't everything. And I'd rather what we have now together, than have loads of money but not have the closeness that we do
I remember Ross Noble put "people who look like cats" into Room 101, so maybe it's Sophie Ellis-Bextor? But I doubt it, because she's seeing someone.
Ross Noble
2. I didn't say there was anything wrong with it? Just highlighting a contrasting culture.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1027290/New-Apprentice-Lee-McQueen-introduces-girlfriend-inspired-victory.html
What a beautiful couple. I'm glad my mindset is in line with someone so successful and ambitious.
Greatly well said. :thumb:
What? You both lie about your achievements? "Began dating more than 9 years ago" might be a bit of a clue as to how wrong that statement is. Funny, I didn't see her being used as a bit of arm candy in order to enhance his sales at any point.
Aye, sounds about right.
I know I changed my attitude a bit when I was earning big bucks when very young and moved to London, but quite quickly grew out of it. I'm from a very working class family, was bullied at school, and then suddenly I was earning more at 21 (bearing in mind I left school at 16/17 with nothing but GCSEs) than my dad did when he was director of a small company (not his own so he didn't set his pay).
In the long run, the change in attitude was partially for the better (I gained more confidence in myself, which was great once I settled down a bit), but had it's downfalls (some of my friends back home who were happy plodding along didn't like the newfound confidence) of which I was quickly made aware. It's all cool now, although as our lives are so different, we're simply not in touch anywhere near as much as before. Just part of growing up as well - people grow apart as their lives change. Straight up, my success with women did in fact go through the roof, which swelled the ego for a short while, but again, I settled down.
Whatever though, I certainly didn't have this constant need to twitter on about status/success/women on my arm getting me higher standing with colleagues(?!)/etc etc etc as it just wasn't me and my peer group wasn't that type (which I think is the more relevant thing here). Actually, I preferred being single and dating lots of different women. I didn't like turning up to events with a partner in case I liked somebody else there, but again I think I am lucky as I rarely have to bother with any of that large corporate networking bollocks as I work in music/telecoms/media.
When it comes down to it, I am far from a 'City Boy' type. I love the fact I earn good money, and yet go to work in shorts and t-shirt when the weather is nice, so effectively nobody is the wiser, and I'm not shouty about it in the slightest. I know who I am, don't compare myself to people as I don't need to. People are who they are. They achieve what they achieve and that's nothing to do with me at all. To summarise - it doesn't matter.
Oh - and referring to the girl: Give it a go. If you're not attracted to somebody, it doesn't matter about her 'success' or who she has been out before. It only comes down to your personal preferences.
It's all in the nuances. You've said she's attractive but you're not too keen on her face. Then you personally can see she's attractive but you personally don't seem to be attracted to her majorly. Like I can see my mate is fit but personally don't fancy her. Does that make sense...?
I spotted that, but didn't have time to reply to J's comment to point it out.
I've just noticed that too :chin:
He said something a while back about someone called ******** (covered for reasons) and this person is someone i know
So im guessing hes either been having a faff around facebook and found me, or actually knows this person.
So i can sorta understand his ego, i mean he escaped the durham area.
And obviously i guess the rant at helen was editing or censored, shouldnt be saying nasty things like that to such a nice lady.
Apologies if i was wrong in everything i said, i made assumptions much they way he [tinkler] did.
Only if you read into it far deeper than you should have. He was titling it by using a well known phrase, most likely for amusement. :yeees:
If you read his posts, he said she was very attractive, just in a way that was quite right to him...
Ok - now you look stupid.
He's already been banned!
He doesn't look banned to me..........
Hmmmmmmmmm... He most certainly was last night.
What is going on?