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well as long as there are lonely people it wont be will it?
Wrong. Theres no such thing as "girls" in general, and what girls want. Different people have different tastes in terms of both looks AND personality.
yeh but i'm pretty objective to all girls. they all find me repulsive.
how old are you hazell?
not being nosey or nothing...
:yes: Personally, I prefer quiet guys, but not ones who will just sit there all night and say nothing.
23. bet you thought i was a whiny 16 yr old. ha. iwish.
actually, I havn't seen any 16 year olds so far....
so just to make convo: whats up with you and girls then?
im listening...
After coming on the boards I realise that girls arn't the only thing worth living for. Im not gonna say "just be yourself" cause im not exactly a firm believer on that myself but you have to alter it if you get what I mean. example: If you talk to your mates about football/porn/movies/video games or anything like that. You shouldn't do the same with girls or you can but do it very briefly, don't prattle on and on if she's not interested.
Are you outgoing or a social butterfly? cause if you don't talk to the girls, how they gonna know your there? If you wanna get a girl to notice you, say Hi, give them a light compliment, use a prop (good icebreaker).
Is it talking to girls or the ones you like that you have a problem with? cause id say just practice saying Hi to the ones you don't like, then start with light conversation. (I tried this once, worked great). As for talking to the ones you like well then its natural to get nervous.
Ditto.
Why is this thread still alive?
see, i'm not in a position to say all this, my experience dealing with people is very limited. i just wanna expereince it for myself.
and by the way, i have made an effort to. i just can't.
Mate, so a couple of questions, how old are you? What's your job? and what are your hobbies?