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Actually, loudness turns me off. I prefer the mature and quiet types who don't feel like they need to be loud to get attention.
I think the whole introvert versus obnoxious and loud is a silly thing to look at. However loud you are, what you get from friendship and relationships depends on how much of yourself you give. I don't mean let people take advantage, you always have to look out for that... But if you aren't sharing yourself as a person people will be less receptive of you and may assume that you aren't comfortable around them.
amusement on a friday afternoon: priceless.
All (yes, all) of the people I have a crush on right now are not loud, obnoxious twats. All of the loud obnoxious twats that have ever come on to me have been brushed off, because ya know...that just doesn't suit my personality. Get the hell over the fact that nobody likes you because you don't like them, and shut the fuck up.
Its this attitude that is putting girls off probably...
Why do you feel a lot of women are bitches? Because they dont fancy you? Even if your theory was correct and all women love loud men, how does that make them bitches?
You seem to have a very very strange idea of what women want, women are individuals which means they are going to have different tastes about all sorts of things...including men.
I think your problem lies with your idea that women are a different species. Your attitude wont be doing you any favours either.
anger? bitterness? its upsetting, sure, but i accept that's they way things are. and i'm sure lifeless isnt that angry either
can't see any, sorry
yeah, true, but as i said i can see both sides and i cant exactly see the like of sophie empathising
There ya go :thumb:
It's not me btw. I don't create false persona's to fight my battles. Just check the ip's, err that's if you can on here. :chin:
Thanks, Hazell. It's actually nice to hear someone understand my position.
Nodbody else seems to get how hard everything is...
I am sick and tired of hearing that line. Just because other people have been through it before me or had it worse that somehow negates what I'm going through?!
Fuck it. I'm not gonna let you bait me tonight.
I would of listened if a certain very vocal group of you actually had anything positive to say...
It's pretty hard not to hate people who abuse you for kicks...
Where I am right now...