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Funny, if it doesn't effect you then why are you arguing so much?
Look, as far as I was concerned this was over. But people on here seem more interested in picking fights. I'm well aware I have problems. I'm aware how they effect my relationships. But it doesn't change the fact that a lot of women are just total bitches.
"Either the sea is crooked, or we're sailing crookedly."
Oh really? The last few posts haven't been helpful at all. Unless abuse is supposed to be helpful these days. :rolleyes:
I actually had a pretty good day today. I ran into a girl I knew from school (one of the non-bitches) and actually had a converstation with her, I took a chance for once. Then I come home just to have you lot bring me down.
I thought this thread was over with. But people had to just take that one last pot shot at me.
So much for a help forum, eh?
And what the hell is that supposed to mean? A very slutty haystack? Are you implying all of these loud girls are slutty?
What I fail to see, is how do you expect anybody to take you seriously when you go around posting bullshit like that. It goes way beyond the catagorizing and assumptions of womens attitudes towards men. Its the fact that you don't demonize women because they do a damn good job of that themselves, maybe its the they're all bitches bit, or sluts. Though what a coincidence that one of the only non bitchy girls is one that talks to you. So anyone who doesn't is a bitch? People don't talk to everybody, that doesn't make them bitches or sluts or pathetic. I thought I couldn't have any less respect for you, then you prove me wrong and type more ignorant shit. If you can't get past the slutty bitchy walking devils of the world that are women, nobody can help you. You need to get your head out of your ass and stop being such an ignorant prick. You need to learn before you can get any help. You need to learn.
Wheyyy, go Manda :hyper: :hyper:
Bullshit!
I intended to leave it there. I only came on the forums to look up some stuff but I saw that this thread had been replied to. With hostility I might add.
Meh. Noone should take my ranting seriously. It's simply that ranting. Although, I do get a peverse pleasure in arguing though. :chin:
Btw, the girl I talked to wouldn't of been a bitch whether she talked to me or not. She was very quiet in school. She's more talkative now though. So, I umm yeah.
But the quiet ones are usually nicer.
Me being one of them.
you havent got a girlfriend as a) you're giving off the desperate vibe b) you have the BIGGEST chip on your shoulder and c) you are bloody miserable!
no-one will want to spend time with you while you behave like this, so i suggest you change you ways!
i wouldnt say i am particularly obnoxious but i can be quite loud...must be a slutty bitch. ill be sure to tell my (quiet and very well mannered) boyfriend your views on me.
If you act like this, you're not going to get a girlfriend.
Bollocks.
Bunny_0_ is right, you do seem to have a colossal chip on your shoulder and I sympathise with you, as you've obviously been tuned into that way of thinking by past experience. That's fair enough and you can't rightly help that but you can stop it from having an impact on your future success in interacting with women and... hopefully, future relationships that you might develop.
Just because certain women haven't been - and aren't - interested in you and may be interested in a louder, more confident and forward bloke doesn't mean that they are slutty or any less of a nice person. Some women do prefer that personality type (myself, for one) but there are just as many who could take or leave it... or would be left utterly cold by an approach from that type of men. It really is horses for courses, and I'm inclined to think you just probably aren't very adept at singling out the right kind of women for your personality type yet (and you could possibly use a few lessons at a charm school, but I'm sure we can forgive you for that
Edit: We really are a helpful bunch here - or at least try to be - but insulting the entire female contingent of the boards by saying we're all slutty or alternatively in some kind of bizarre, mythological minority isn't the ideal way to get the best out of us and drink from the fount of all wisdom