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I know. It's good innit :hyper:
It's all with the fucking.
Fucking everywhere.
TV, Movies, magazines, radio, real life.
You have a bunch of 13 and up teens fucking around everyday and like you say it aint new. Back in the day you could get married at 14 or 15 and they were fucking around.
You know King Arthurs bride? Geunivere? She was only suppsoed to be 12-14 when she got it on with him.
ROmeo and Juliet - 14.
Its a thing thats been around forveer and is perpetual in everyday life. Constant, never ending.
So maybe, if you aren't fucking, then maybe something is wrong with you eh? I mean by historical logic.
it could also mean that i'm in control of myself way better than anyone else in history!haaaa!
Be seperate? out of thf fold? unusal? a freak???
everyone has these idealistic view sof being unique and rebellious but its all bullshit. The most "non-conformist" are often the most conformist of all.
Sex makes the world go round.
I read somewhere that your never more then so many metres form people having sex. Sex is everywhere.
or your just holding out and then one day you'll explode into sexual frenzy and you'll be banging on about how many orgasams you have and how your bf does this thing with you and if you have done anal like the rest of the people on here.
Or pig ugly. Or both :chin:
The first time you have sex is never special. If you expect it to be your in for a big letdown!
i don't mean for this to sound condescending but how do you know this if you haven't had it?
The older generation deride the young for fucking around and then have their own programmes based on fucking around, ala Sex and the City etc.
Relationships are based around sex. A psyhcologists study reckons 70% of the relationship is based on sex. It has that much importance.
Everyone demands more. Better sex, more of it, wilder, free, more orgasams.
the baser dsires win out and nights out are abou tpulling and sex and all that jazz.
Men going out every week and bannging, women exactly the same.
Once there was shame to sex, rightly or wrongly or whatever you think. Now its open.,Its free and no 1 cares if they are judged for fucking coz everyone is.
You can be dumped if you don't measure up in bed.
Sex sells.
sigh.....sorry I am on a bit of a funny one today, just a bit off about something, Not happy and joyful. Its colouring my posts.
Nope. The ones that choose not to have sex are freakish. Or religious. Or idealistic. Etc. The ones that don't get any when they want it are either unlucky or doing something wrong.
Though I still get the sense Stephen Fry actually knew what he was missing..
Actually it is the aspect of life :chin:
I didn't even notice....
Thanks scarlett
Er no i think you were missing the point of my post.
What are they teaching you lot in school these days?
You could be with the most wonderful person ever in the whole wide world, who you love very very much, but if the sex is shit, who gives a fuck about all that. It's like move on!
I've had sex with people i've loved, and people i've just pulled. The atmosphere is the same. It's just sex innit.
Maybe i'm emotionally stunted :chin:
Well not sure i could love someone that was shit in bed.
True. But the people that psych themselves up thinking that just cos the person they're fuckin is the love of their life, that the sex will be good (be it physically/atmosphere whatever) are the ones that feel the worst after. Of course there is a small minority that probably feel quite nice afterwards but i've never really met any!
i never said it was did i. i find it to be a very important aspect of a relationship, though.
just asked what you were basing your comment on when you haven't had sex.
Not anymore it ain't.