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erm...what if they're just people who just choose to live life diffrently cos they're from a different background and have different values? :chin:
They do what they feel is right, you do what you feel is right. Do exactly what you want - ignore pressure from anyone else until you feel the time is right for you.
I was the only one in my 'group' of friends who was still a virgin at 19. Didn't bother me in the slightest, and I feel pretty much the same way now. I've slept with a handful of girls, and have been sex-less now for 3.5 years. It's nice and all, but it's best with someone you deem to be special - I've no interest in getting my end away, I'd rather keep it in my pants than have a collection of conquests
There is no shame in being who you are, nor is there any shame in your friends being who they want to be. Live and let live, someone special will come along
How bloody shallow are you?
Sex is one aspect of a person, and a relationship. If high-quality sex is high on your agenda then by all means ensure that you have a rampant sex-life.
Personally, the sex comes second-place to a lot of other things for me. Primarily, I guess, is whether or not I'd have to be concerned that my partner is off having high-quality sex without me
i wasn't looking down at you.
i just think you can't really say sex isn't that important until you start having it; that's all.
Well lets see the only people not getting laid are er....kinda odd or people no one wants to touch yeah.
I couldn't give a fuck if people wanna shag about or not, just pointing out that normal people get laid. Looks like you need some of that yourself love.
I am bloody shallow yes. Bloody bloody shallow :rolleyes:
Look ain't being funny but if someones crap in bed it'll cause problems whether it's the most important thing or not.
The friends I was with said most of the blokes fancied the pants off me that night because I looked so different to everyone else. They said they could see I wasn't trying to look sexy and this was part of the attraction (and also they could guess I was a virgin - some guys find this attractive? I dont know) But anyhoo a load of guys came onto me that night who were totally out of my league.
So now I dress in pretty clothes I like and not sexy clothes, because I seem to be the only one doing it.
And plenty of so-called 'odd people' do too - having sex has never been the reserve of the 'beautiful people'.
:no: No need to get personal.
Two people who are in the mood, and can communicate each other's needs and desires = potentially mind-blowing sex.
i think i like your response the best!
Oh right so it's alright for other people to slag down my opinion, but not alright for me to air mine!
Did i ever say that ugly people are crap in bed?! Nor did i say that i put looks and sexual performance above everything else. I merely stated that if someones crap in bed it's bound to cause problems.
Like you?
And don't patronise me. I've been posting on these boards nuff time to know how things work.
My conduct? :nervous:
Please feel free to.
I don't think lacy has done anything wrong. She has given an honest opinion. Quite frankly there have been members of this board far more guilty of worse conduct yet you never said a word stargalaxy??
I gree with lipsy, good luck at uni, u will need it.