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No i'm saying ugly people find it harder to get laid. Unless they like find other ugly people. Not saying all people not shagging are ugly.
And i'm sorry but you can't say i'm the only person to think like that!
just like i reported yours, eh?
Yeah but there are some people that are like blatantly ugly.
Did you not read the part of the thread that I quoted? Go back and read it again. I'm not talking about airing your opinion, I'm talking about making a specific comment you made to Moonrat which was personal and unjustified.
I did yes.
I'm sure she didn't even give a second thought to what was said. It's not like i aimed an insult at her, was merely a passing comment.
Fair enough, I can't speak for others, but I still think it was an unnecessary comment. I do think your overall views are interesting though - certainly make other people question where they're coming from.
Take it easy
And you can be having the best sex with the best looking person(to you) on the planet but if you clash on other fronts it'll fall apart anyway.
Actually it can be really special, like ballerina i wanted my first time to be as near perfect as it could, and it was really romantic and special.
Yeah but who wants romantic and special sex?
Dirty dirty sex is what it's all about!
Start as you mean to go on!
Go find yourself a beautiful tramp then :thumb:.
However, we're all different. We all find difference characteristics attractive, different personalities, different looks, and by the same token we'll all find different things important in a relationship - and, more importantly, we're all entitled to find different things important.
May we all have happy and prosperous relationships in future :thumb:.
well depends on your sex drive really?....different people want different things!
Compare Maggie Thatcher at 40 with Nigella Lawson. Do people collectively find them equally attractive? How many many men would shag Maggie before Nigella?
Off Topic: I have a friend who's 'medically UGLY'. His face was smashed about a bit in a crash or something and he now qualifies for free cosmetic surgery...
On Topic: everyone waits untill the right time to have sex. For some the 'right time' might be 2 seconds after meeting somebody and feeling a stiring in their pants, and for others it is after being in a relationship for two years with plans to get married and trust and love.
Still On Topic: Non-sexually acitve peeps can make valid observations about the importance of sex, they are in a great position to comment on how important not having it is as well as how un-important they view having it is.
Sticking With The Topic: I don't think it's shallow to judge a sexual relationship on the quality and quantity of the sex, sex is what makes it a sexual relationship and if the sex isn't great then the sexual part of the relationship is lacking.
On Bitching: Gah!
I'm going to paraphrase Blagsta here. Looks are certainly subjective but are confined to biological parameters.
There are ugly people in the world just like there are stunning people in this world.
And that's where the term "freakish" comes into the equation. I mean, you aren't all law abiding Christians are you?
celibacy doesn't always have anything to do with religion though. Unfreakish reasons for celibacy include: loss of partner, a break from the sometimes shallow and superficial expectations in sexual relationships etc, no libido due to chemicals such as er some medicines. I once decided to go celibate, ok so it didn't last but that's beside the point, I decided that to try to make my life less complicated, to step back from'trivial' persuits and try to 'find myself'.