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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,801 Master Poster
    There's a part of me I can't get back.  A little girl grew up too fast.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    I feel like someone is poisoning me.  But I have been watching easterners lol 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hi @LorryTruck sending lots of hugs. We’re always here if you ever need anything. Always happy to listen  <3
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,801 Master Poster
    I can't even explain it. Feeling like a burden.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Covid positive :(
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    If my headache is as bad as this tomorrow I’m ringing 111 :(. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    GreenTea said:
    Covid positive :(


    I feel so rough, banging headache, shakey, runny nose... Urgh make it stop
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    edited February 2021
    But I feel unwell now :( it doesn’t feel like a normal headache. It won’t go 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕


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    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    edited February 2021
    Then I do the NHS but under the catogry of the way I self harm and clicking the unwell feeling. And it says this 
    ugh.like what one is it I’ll ring tomorrow. 


    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I'm so fucking scared 😭 I don't want to die of covid.
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Waiting for a call from the doctors. I hate it when they don’t give you an exact time it makes me feel so anxious just sat waiting for it 
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Well that was a massive waste of time. The doctor I’ve had be dismissive before called she told me everything was normal and to take an ibuprofen if I need to. Great thanks. Sometimes I just want someone to actually listen for more than 3 minutes 😩😩
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    Feel asleep  through DBT
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I can confirm...my taste and smell has gone.. even had a munch of Raw garlic.. 😭
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    Shaunie said:
    Feel asleep  through DBT
    Never taking mirtazapine agin. Can’t stay awake
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    Shaunie said:
    Shaunie said:
    Feel asleep  through DBT
    Never taking mirtazapine agin. Can’t stay awake
    I found that when I first started it @Shaunie but it's definitely better now, I'm finding I'm less tired in the day because I'm sleeping better at night after just over a week on them, might be worth sticking with it for a few days see if it gets better :) 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    independent_ said:
    Shaunie said:
    Shaunie said:
    Feel asleep  through DBT
    Never taking mirtazapine agin. Can’t stay awake
    I found that when I first started it @Shaunie but it's definitely better now, I'm finding I'm less tired in the day because I'm sleeping better at night after just over a week on them, might be worth sticking with it for a few days see if it gets better :) 
    Did you sleep the whole day at the start ?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    Shaunie said:
    independent_ said:
    Shaunie said:
    Shaunie said:
    Feel asleep  through DBT
    Never taking mirtazapine agin. Can’t stay awake
    I found that when I first started it @Shaunie but it's definitely better now, I'm finding I'm less tired in the day because I'm sleeping better at night after just over a week on them, might be worth sticking with it for a few days see if it gets better :) 
    Did you sleep the whole day at the start ?
    I didn’t @Shaunie but I could have if I’d not forced myself to go to the shop lol. I think it’s really normal to for the first few days though. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Still shook about the murder that's happened... Just... It's sad :( poor woman
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    Very weird dreams 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    I can’t stay here anymore I need to go 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Honestly can't take much more shit. My head's a mess, my anxiety is high and I feel so physically unwell too. Thought it was getting better but clearly someone up above thought "hahahaha no let's give you more crap to deal with"
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    I’m just not in a good headspace, feel so stressed by little things and just really overwhelmed. I did so well yesterday and actually had a somewhat productive day but why can I never have more than one good day in a row :joy: 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    independent_ said:
    I’m just not in a good headspace, feel so stressed by little things and just really overwhelmed. I did so well yesterday and actually had a somewhat productive day but why can I never have more than one good day in a row :joy: 
    Sending massive hugs @independent_ <3 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    My brain all the time ;
    Atleast I’m not fat 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    What is the point we are all gunna die 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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