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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    I want to die
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
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    ZenZen Posts: 1,989 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie Send you hugs <3 Remember how strong you are!
    Alis propriis volat 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Don’t think I’m strong just think it’s cause I’ma coward but thank you <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
    I feel unwanted... Just want someone to notice I'm struggling and acknowledge what I'm saying but I'm just invisible. I feel used and abused for my creative ideas and then ditched... Like I don't matter.. in just used when people want something from me
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie i care about ye <3
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    ZenZen Posts: 1,989 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie Well I don't believe that you are a coward, I see you as someone who has fought battles other's can't see and that takes more strength than anyone could imagine <3
    Alis propriis volat 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Aw thank you @Liam <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
    Today is just a bad day.. still got thoughts and ideas around suicide. The urges to self harm are so powerful. I feel like I'm drowning in my mindset and nobody cares enough to be kind. 

    I know everyone hates me and it makes me feel more comfortable with suicide.. just want someone to care. I just want to feel like I matter.

    I am not ok. Why is that being ignored?
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Thank you @Eleanor <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Everyone really cares about you @Shaunie, you got this ❤️
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Aw guys <3 feeling the love. Thank you very much. Means a lot <3 😊😊😊
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Can I have a hug and support please.. I'm crying out for help and I'm invisible.
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    GreenTea said:
    Can I have a hug and support please.. I'm crying out for help and I'm invisible.
    Hugs! 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    Can I have a hug and support please.. I'm crying out for help and I'm invisible.
    Sending huge hugs @GreenTea ❤️
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2020
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    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    GreenTea said:
    Today is just a bad day.. still got thoughts and ideas around suicide. The urges to self harm are so powerful. I feel like I'm drowning in my mindset and nobody cares enough to be kind. 

    I know everyone hates me and it makes me feel more comfortable with suicide.. just want someone to care. I just want to feel like I matter.

    I am not ok. Why is that being ignored?


    What's the point anymore.. I'm just a fat, disgusting, hated, useless nobody. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    I feel invisible when I give support to you....

    are you going to stay safe?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2020
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    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
    Shaunie said:
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    Sorry shouldn't of said it here. Am currently texting with shout. Sorry. Will go to a&e if need to. 

    I'm just not ok and I've been crying out for support all week and not been acknowledged. I feel completely tipped over the edge and fed up of living... Things are hard and I still don't have a GP so can't go back on meds. I'm just sick of everything.

    I'll be fine. Wont do anything. Will keep texting shout and take myself to hospital when I need to
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Glad you have a plan to stay safe!
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I'm just so tired of trying...sorry shouldn't of posted what I did. That's why I deleted it and hoped nobody saw.. sorry to chase concern. Was just ranting my mindset out and didn't think
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    It’s okay. I get the impulses too. Just glad you can stay safe. Here in pm if want to chat. We care 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Sorry again. Just.. mind outburst. Sat crying now and just..sorry was stupid. 
    Currently texting with SHOUT who are being really nice. I should of just stuck to that instead of outbursting. I'm Holding in so much.. I'm a bottle that popped it's lid
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    I really hate this. My family Arguing all the time is to much when I’ve got stuff going on in my head. It’s like so shit it horrible
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited September 2020
    Had a positive chat with SHOUT. Really reassuring and listened to how I'm feeling. She suggested getting some paper and just scribble everything in my head down, even if it doesnt make sense. Just get it on paper so I can make sense of it all and suggested some SH alternatives I haven't tried before.
    Gonna try it I guess.
    Also suggested A&E if feeling unsafe. Gonna try work through this with above ideas and see how I'm feeling

    I need to try better at communicating when I reach breaking point. I need to communicate before i bubble over. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Feeling very triggered and overwhelmed tonight now
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2020
    I thought losing weight would make me happier it never does. ED fucking liar. I can’t help but still think maybe it’s because I’ve not lost enough. Weight keeps fluctuating so bad it’s unreal
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,319 Part of The Furniture
    I know we've been in touch privately @GreenTea but just wanted to acknowledge that for the others who saw your post. Good to see you considering crisis options when you need them. :) I've deleted a few of the recent posts here just to avoid any worry for anyone who might be reading.

    Just a gentle reminder for everyone that this thread doesn't replace a dedicated thread for when you need that more in-depth support or you want to have a proper chat about something. The hugs thread is brill for some things, but it's also okay to dedicate focused time and attention to what's on your mind or what you're feeling. You're worthy of that, and it's always an option (if you want it). :star: 
    The truth resists simplicity.
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