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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Im tired allll the time
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    For sure everyone needs physical connection @Shaunie ! 

    My opinion on that article is that they mean it's important to have a good friend network you can meet up with 

    But there's nothing wrong with online friendships and until I turned 17 and went to college online ones were all I had :) 

    You're an awesome person Shaunie very kind and overall lovely! 

    I definitely believe there are benefits to friends and a support network online that's why it says don't rely on it alone, physically friendships are great 

    I know socialising is tough I used to have really bad social anxiety but anyone can make a friend! :) 

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Exhausted but literally can't sleep. I'm getting fed up of this not sleeping bullshit now. I miss a good night sleep
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Thank you @Laine <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Just want some fucking sleeppp
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited June 2020
    I don’t know how im going to get to sleep. IM getting really scared of taking teddy to the vets tomorrow. Gotta wake up early too. He's getting he balls cut off. He has a heart murmur and heart problem If anything happens to him. I don't think ill cope. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Getting really stressed. Getting ready to leave teddy to get his balls off
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Teddys little face when i left him at the vets 😣
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Its hadd @Shaunie I know but it will be what's best for him in the end :) 

    And they're professionals if they doubted the procedure would be good with his heart condition they wouldn't do it x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    It’s horrible having to leave them isn’t it @Shaunie, I remember it with Theo when he got his done but he was absolutely fine and the vets were absolutely wonderful with him. He was back to his normal self pretty quick x
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Thank you. Just had phone call to say hes doing really well and up and about and had a little walk which said is really good!!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    That's amazing Shaunie! He will probably just need all the cuddles and good food when he gets home :) 

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Fucking hate thunder
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Poor teddy keeps crying randomly and not happy at alll. Which is expected but he is literally crying. Ive never seen so much water around and in his eyes😢😢😢😢. And the vet just suddenly said he doesnt have a heart murmur and nothing wrong with his heart. Hm dont really believe that. We payed a lot for the checks and payed extra for his ball cause of his heart murmur and what jusy suddenly doesnt exist. Bit confused. Hes being treated with chicken and rice now causw he doesnt even want a treat bless him. Scared to even pick him up
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    Aww @Shaunie, it’s horrible to see them like that. Is he having to wear one of those cone things around his head?
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    independent_ said:
    Aww @Shaunie, it’s horrible to see them like that. Is he having to wear one of those cone things around his head?
    Yeah but the cone is too small he can still reach it so think need to order a new one
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    @Shaunie aww bless him. When I was quite young my old dog had an operation on her foot and they gave her a cone but it was way too big and she was so uncomfortable. I think the vets had some smaller ones. Might be worth giving your vet a ring to ask if they have a bigger one for him?
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Yeah so pissed offf. I asked over the phoen said its too small. So they was like oh sorry come and get one theyre free. So i was great. Go there and theyre like "so this is £10" and i said "oh oka the other one too small and got told it was for free over the phone, so will i have to pay for two" she goes like "welll i aint got the other one. Ill put it on the system and will need to ring to pay" its like alright. 
    I aint paying for it until i send other one back and be like i even have this size and was for free appwrently
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited June 2020
    Im feeling reallyyyy realllyyyy overwhelmed😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Feel like ive done more than my comfort zone and feel like crying. Ive had 9 seperate calls with the vets and calls are over whelming feels like a lot. And the stress of teddy being ok and how sad he is And keeps crying  and then the cone not fitting him and being told different things over the phone. And walked to the vets 3 times. And teddy had bangage around his foot. I think where rhey injected him and stuff. I took the bandage off like they said and omggggg i thought it was his actual bone🤢🤢they have shaved him rigjt to the skin and i can not look at it making me feel really sick and dizzy to look at 🤢

    and thennnnn on my way home there was this guy sat under the underpass and all i did was walk past him. I might of looked at him for a split  second like you do if se someone and thats it. He goes like " i am fed up of people looking at me like that. Like im scum and going to chop someone head off". I just ignored it at the start but carried on while i was walking off so i said "i didnt look at you anyway. I think thats just my face & i always stare at the floor" then he just said sorry. 😒😒😒😒😒
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Struggling to breath 😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Anxiety is biting me today. So so in edge
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Teddy is getting so frustrated with his cone and wanting to lick his non existing balls and banging his massive cone everywhere he goes. He so sad. Breaking my heart:,( wish I could tell him he won't have that on forever
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    My anxiety is so fucking high and I'm being snappy because I'm so fucking anxious
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,802 Master Poster
    I am such an idiot.
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    here if you wanna talk kasa <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,802 Master Poster
    Thank you. Just so embarrassed about what happened at school. And something made me feel upset at lunchtime. 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Nobody gives a shit about me. Nobody ever wants to help me when I'm really struggling 😭😭😭😭😭
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Kasa2103 said:
    Thank you. Just so embarrassed about what happened at school. And something made me feel upset at lunchtime. 
    Was people kind to you today? And after you fell? If wanna talk about lunch time. Will listen <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I want to just hurt myself and disappear
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