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why do 12 year old girls wear thongs?
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I think people were most annoyed about a very old post being dredged up rather than the subject matter itself. Besides everyone has the right to an opinion, but everyone else has the right to disagree with it- Freedom of speech. Personally though back to the subject i was around 20 when i first wore a thong and i bought my first g-string this year aged 24. I d find thongs more comfortable and yes i do think they are sexy, so i can see why theres this debate. However i've seen some thongs that are clearly wrong. They are advertised for young children and early teenagers, but say things like "eat my cherry" etc.. which for a 10 year old to wear (for example) is just plain wrong!
Perhaps this is wrong, and underwear shouldn't be treated as sexual, but it is so tough.
And as I have said before, pre-teenaged children shouldn't be worrying about VPL.
im not one to come up with this line but "freedom of speech" comes to mind, as so many of the regular posters seem to use.
explain...(without quoting a rule book)
exactly, if it was a personal problem then theres no reason to drag it up.
but for a discussion like this, it should just run naturally, if people have something to say, let them say it
I think one of the things that confuses newbies on internet forums is that they so often get flamed for not running searches!!
Because people are still intrested in the subject?
Bringing up old threads like this is rude because it expects everyone to re-read all the pages, which some of us dont have the time/will to do.
It is also rude because the Mods have asked you not to, and there is no freedom of speach, no fairness, no right to appeal, they say and we jump, they've taken the time to bloody set up the boards after all.
So dont do it.
Little wonder that people are jumping into bed with each other once they hit 12 or 13, when they're being sexualised from such a young age. Absolutely outrageous IMO. Why on God's earth does a 4 year old need one?
Why does wearing a thong 'sexualise you'?
because people like you keep replying to it?
yes ok, so i am too but i don't have a problem with the thread in the first place.
I don't think I've been sexualised from a young age - I've always been quite innocent and geeky. I think underage sex is often just an issue of personal choice, and whether the relationship is mature, responsible and respectful enough to handle it. But then not forgetting the girls in my year losing their virginity whilst practically paraletic to a 25 yr old they just met in the pub.
I did see a huge amount of young girls in mini-skirts, short tops etc today at a car-boot sale. These girls were as young as six.. you could practically see their pants.. and it wasn't hot or anything - i was wearing a waterproof jacket and wellies! It just looked awfully tacky and wrong.
Explain to me why exactly a thong would be appropriate or necessary for a child of that age. I saw a feature on tv about some of these children's thongs with racy things written on them ('come get me' being an example, 'playmate' another). They were aimed at girls of about 10-12. IMO there are certain ways a child shouldn't dress. I don't think it's right to see girls not even into their teens walking round in knee length boots, short skirts, looking like hookers. We are we so desperate for young people to grow up so quickly thesedays? Why can't we let kids be kids? A lot of girls feel like they need to act and dress like a grown woman by the time they start secondary school!
If you get to a certain age and want to wear thongs, then fine. I have no general problem with them (quite the opposite :razz: )
But what I'm saying is, it's part of a wider societal process of encouraging young people to grow up too quickly. It's not just the thongs. A 10 year old girl can walk into a shop, and buy herself a whole outfit, designed for a person of her age, to make her look like a slut. Sad but true.
whatever - end of *does that saskia movement with hand*
And why wouldn't it? Are thongs always 'sexy' underwear or can they be just as 'innocent' as a pair of knickers?
See Zella's response! I agree with it entirely.