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Oh, so it's not okay to hurl abuse, but it is okay to rape. Excuse me. I stand corrected.
Honestly, what is going through your head?? I know people who have suffered at the hands of rapists. Those people have had their lives and their self worth torn apart, and have had to build themselves back up again. Is that fair?
Besides, why is he allowed to express his view while I am not allowed to express mine? He said that rape was okay, and I said that he should be castrated. So expressing my view is a "punishment" for him?
You know what, I can't even be bothered with you. You disgust me. You really do.
He had the audacity to say what he thought, let him defend himself.
Oh, is that all?
A statement in which he says rape can be justified.
I give up. You're both beyond help and both disgust me.
Okay, perhaps you weren't thinking of me when you wrote that, but I shall respond to it anyway.
First of all, there is the fact that Steelgate is just plain wrong. There may be similarities between the acts of theft and rape -- in both cases something is forcibly taken -- but the latter crime is one of hugely greater enormity. Steelgate's assertion ignores that and stands as an insult to all victims of rape, past, present and future.
Secondly, are we truly "running on a mob mentality" -- or simply reacting with near-universal horror and disgust to Steelgate's assertion? Look back on my posts -- I think I have made it clear that my anger is quite self-centred (as opposed to generated by "the mob") and has a good deal of rational basis. Would you care to dispute that?
Yes, Steelgate has made a statement of belief. We are now telling him in very strong terms that we think it is a sick and twisted belief.
Do I threaten Steelgate? If he rapes a woman and dares to use the 'justification' he has put forward -- hell, yes!
Defence of minorities is often wise... Minorities are not always deserving of such protection, though. Active rapists (which, I concede, Steelgate is not -- yet) are such.
Scarlett
Oh, so it's not okay to hurl abuse, but it is okay to rape. Excuse me. I stand corrected.
WAOH!!!!!
I can put the rest of you on hold for a while...
When did i say that?
Tell me... If thats said next to my name then some-one has been logging on as me.... which i don't think has hapened.
Where did i sday that?
Putting words like that into my mouth is wrong. If you have a view feel free to tell me what it is.
Don't tell me what my veiws are.
Oh, is that all?
A statement in which he says rape can be justified.
I give up. You're both beyond help and both disgust me.
Innocent is innocent, regardless of how wrong, or misguided, or unpopular the persons beliefs are.
Surely it's implied by the fact that you attacked my statement while letting his slide. In fact, defending his right to make that statement.
But of course, I have no right to state my views. Please do forgive me, I had forgotten that. Only views that condone rape are to be allowed.
:rolleyes:
When asked, on a different BB, if he would ever force a woman to have sex against her will if he couldnt get access to (or didn't have the money to pay for) a prostitute....guess what.
He said he would.
He claims that he has a 'right to have sex', even at the expense of any future victim.
Oh, and of course it would be her fault for not letting him 'get off' with her.
It isn't an opinion....it is something he would do.
The bloke is the worst kind of scum...he is dangerous, and doesn't know it.
So the belief that rape can be justified is simply categorised as misguided? He has had all of us explaining just how wrong that belief is and still refuses to believe a word because he sees sex as a right, something to take should you want it and therefore sympathy should be dished out to the oh so poor unhappy sex deprived rapist?
You've read what the people from the his old board have said, he would take sex if someone refuses to give it to him. Therefore he is just as bad as a rapist because, as 10bellies said, it is something he would do. He'd rape someone and he has said it. He is practically a rapist in my eyes.
If you really believe you should defend stee1gate and his views then...ugh, but if you are doing this because you are unwilling to back down then pathetic shall be added to the list of things I regard you as.
In the meantime, please do not feed the troll.
Was that me being called a troll?
Daisy : Actually i was putting those particular beliefs into the heading of wrong, but my statement was true for misguided comments, and unpopular comments.
Also i think you should be careful saying some-one is a rapist unless they have actually raped some-one.
Nope. I just thought that the rape comments were probably being made to get attention. But now I suspect they were genuine, hence the banning.
Thank you.
Steelgate has been banned? It took this much to ban Steelgate, while Thanatos has been banned how many times?
Just for the record, Steelgate had been banned before, under different usernames.
No, Steelgate's right to state that rape is morally equivalent to theft of bread derives from the same source and has the same validity as our right to then tell him that he is a sick creature that we would rather see dead. The difference lies in the content of the statements, not their "right to be made."
My respect, also, to MacKenzie, who has, in my eyes proved himself as one of the finest posters on here. Not only is he rational, wise and thoughtful, he displays moral courage and conviction which are very much in keeping with my own ideas of morality.
Formulaic, perhaps, but my respects to you, Sir.
I disagree, there's no excuse for making those comments.
BTW, I am also an admin of a BBS: Registered Members: 17,855 | Total Threads: 78,436 | Total Posts: 621,656
freedom of speech ?
there is no such thing as total freedom. are we free from the laws of gravity this evening ? then step out the window !
freedom can only exist with agreement and responsibility.
we have to have rules and boundaries. if not.....would you feel safe to drive without rules...laws?
were all ...hopefully broadminded on here but.....we have to protect one another. realy. in the real fucking world. remember...the real world where steelgate wanted to meet people.....rainbow...rocker.....daisy......becky......lizzie etc.
or am i talking to people who want to be failed social workers , due to political correctness.
:: Punches his right fist into his left hand and bows, wu-shu style. ::
My compliments to you, too, kind sir.
The net is full of Idiots like the one thats just been banned.
And its becuase he has expressed that view on Liv that i posted it.I believe that women should have a right to know what his views are on this so they can make a choice as to whether they attend a meet up where he is going to be present.
I personally did not expect him to be banned(naieve of me perhaps) But if thats the score thats the score.
THANKYOU ESMERELDA for posting it. i felt the same way and when he appeared on anything goes asking where everyone was i was mortified and also had to pass it on. the downside was that it seemed to make the boards go very serious and dark. the upside was...he's gone.
Well done.
I dont like bannings and certainly dont believe he should have been banned for his views as wierd as they were, however with him discussing Meets I did feel alarmed becuase I was aware what his views were towards women.
Pic removed as it was waaay to big for the page.
Lady J
and the point of this was?