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That's ok. But if I'm saying anything stupid, you're welcome to tell me.
Thankyou.
I'm saying that this thread reminds me of something else, nothing more.
I don't quite agree with the saying myself. Poverty is somewhat more of an issue than not being on drugs, I would have thought.
Well I guess attraction has quite a lot to do with sex, that's all. I agree that it's subjective.
Even fat people get laid.
Mate, the saying originated from a Fabulous Furry Freaky Bros cartoon, it was said in jest, don't take everything so seriously.
So how do they manage to do so?
It's ok, not offended.
edited to add ...i just went alllll the way back to the start ...the question being ...why doesn't everyone just do drugs? Why not those who can ...do both?
Well it seems from your previous comments that some people do only one or the other (or neither) simply because they don't want to. Which certainly explains a lot about the way I'm living my life, if nothing else.
Try reading the post from the start.
The first is true, the second is open to interpretation. Besides, I don't understand why I should adopt a label I never chose to have in the first place. I'd much rather adopt the more positive label of: human being.
Was thinking maybe the first thing is true for some people because they can't be bothered (rather than genuinely can't)?
By can't be bothered, I mean deciding it's all so ridiculous that you decide simply to forget about it. I do not mean undersexed.
I can think of a couple of extremely hansome men friends in my life who never scored ...when i ALWAYS did ...it used to drive them mad.
It's about personality.
It will happen for you ...if you don't try to hard ...maybe not even try at all ...don't let it become an issue inside of you or it will show on the outside.
Have fun ...make other people feel good about themselves ...and you will make out ...thats a promise.
I think really it's just that sometimes I would prefer to do drugs, not per se but simply because it's all less hassle. People don't get so uptight about drugs, though obviously some people disapprove of them. For example in Shameless, when Marty has a go at someone for being too old to shag. But no-one's regarded as too old for drugs. I think it's stuff like that I'm getting at. Drugs is a pleasure that can last for a lifetime, sex isn't. (at least, this seems to be society's way of thinking). And yet, when you think about, there are awkward things about drugs, like making sure it's the right stuff, trying not to damage your health, etc. But then I'd be excluded from being judged because people would just think 'oh, he's into drugs, he's a drugs kind of person'. So then whether or not I've been laid would become irrelevant, or at least less relevant. I'm not even sure it'll last forever, we all go through phases and that. I would like particularly like to know if anyone on these boards is going through the same thing.
That probably seems like a strange and long-winded post, but is basically the burden I carry with me every day.
Cheers, that's very good advice. :thumb:
lol.........
I'm guessing you don't have a lot of sex
I'm actualy in my fifties and have smoked weed for forty years ...still enjoy the stuff and guess what ...i'm still enjoying sex as well!
Go talk to some of the younger members and i'm sure you'll get some understanding and good advice.
Be ready for a bit of flack as well ...theres a fair bit of slagging and piss taking goes on but ...you can handle that i'm sure.
All the best ...and do keep popping in here as well.