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Drugs are better than sex?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was pissed and messin about.

    That's ok. But if I'm saying anything stupid, you're welcome to tell me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    That's ok. But if I'm saying anything stupid, you're welcome to tell me.

    Thankyou.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    You're too literal, junker. Sometimes things don't work rationally.

    BlackArab, I'm not actually too sure what you're trying to say?

    I'm saying that this thread reminds me of something else, nothing more.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BlackArab wrote: »
    I'm saying that this thread reminds me of something else, nothing more.

    I don't quite agree with the saying myself. Poverty is somewhat more of an issue than not being on drugs, I would have thought.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not criticising sex of course, it's just that (as I said at the start) the idea that you can simply have good sex instead of doing drugs is rather naive.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    wooooooooah, why would I need to be wasted to say that? I suppose, on reflection, society has always been divided into the attractive and unattractive but what are you supposed to do if you fall into the latter category? Just lay down and die? What if you don't even agree with people's judgements in the first place?
    Firstly, what does all that have to do with the thread you started? Secondly, if you don't agree with people's judgements then surely you must realise that nobody really falls into any category. It's all subjective, so don't worry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just take a look at all the varieties of porn, everyone has different tastes. Its totally a matter of opinion who is attractive or not.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    onions ...thats what i fantasise about ...even pickled minger onions.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly, what does all that have to do with the thread you started? Secondly, if you don't agree with people's judgements then surely you must realise that nobody really falls into any category. It's all subjective, so don't worry.

    Well I guess attraction has quite a lot to do with sex, that's all. I agree that it's subjective.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What is it with you?
    Even fat people get laid.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    I don't quite agree with the saying myself. Poverty is somewhat more of an issue than not being on drugs, I would have thought.

    Mate, the saying originated from a Fabulous Furry Freaky Bros cartoon, it was said in jest, don't take everything so seriously.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What is it with you?
    Even fat people get laid.

    So how do they manage to do so?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BlackArab wrote: »
    Mate, the saying originated from a Fabulous Furry Freaky Bros cartoon, it was said in jest, don't take everything so seriously.

    It's ok, not offended. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    So how do they manage to do so?
    They get laid by other fat people of course!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems like the conclusion of this thread is, basically, do what you like. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    Seems like the conclusion of this thread is, basically, do what you like. :)
    WLH ...i'm guessing here that i'm not the only one who hasn't a clue what your thinking ...what your on about ...what is your point?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess what I mean is that, the answer to the original question is that everyone simply does what they like.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    I guess what I mean is that, the answer to the original question is that everyone simply does what they like.
    The original question being to do with sex and drugs? Your answer being everyone does what thy like ...:chin:
    edited to add ...i just went alllll the way back to the start ...the question being ...why doesn't everyone just do drugs? Why not those who can ...do both?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The original question being to do with sex and drugs? Your answer being everyone does what thy like ...:chin:
    edited to add ...i just went alllll the way back to the start ...the question being ...why doesn't everyone just do drugs? Why not those who can ...do both?
    Okay now you lost me too... :nervous:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The original question being to do with sex and drugs? Your answer being everyone does what thy like ...:chin:
    edited to add ...i just went alllll the way back to the start ...the question being ...why doesn't everyone just do drugs? Why not those who can ...do both?

    Well it seems from your previous comments that some people do only one or the other (or neither) simply because they don't want to. Which certainly explains a lot about the way I'm living my life, if nothing else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay now you lost me too... :nervous:

    Try reading the post from the start.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Both are fun, so its a question of which is more fun. I can't decide :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    Try reading the post from the start.
    Was that sarcasm?? If I understood you I might appreciate the tone...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    Which certainly explains a lot about the way I'm living my life, if nothing else.
    Your not getting any are you ...your a minger right? But thats ok ...just look for a minger to pair up with and your sorted.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your not getting any are you ...your a minger right? But thats ok ...just look for a minger to pair up with and your sorted.

    The first is true, the second is open to interpretation. Besides, I don't understand why I should adopt a label I never chose to have in the first place. I'd much rather adopt the more positive label of: human being.

    Was thinking maybe the first thing is true for some people because they can't be bothered (rather than genuinely can't)?

    By can't be bothered, I mean deciding it's all so ridiculous that you decide simply to forget about it. I do not mean undersexed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    The first is true, the second is open to interpretation. Besides, I don't understand why I should adopt a label I never chose to have in the first place. I'd much rather adopt the more positive label of: human being.

    Was thinking maybe the first thing is true for some people because they can't be bothered (rather than genuinely can't)?

    By can't be bothered, I mean deciding it's all so ridiculous that you decide simply to forget about it. I do not mean undersexed.
    Look WLH ...i know some god damn ugly people ...who are in love ...some in lust ...at some point or points they get sex ...and you will too. Seriously ...you do not have to look like something off the cover of a magazine to get sex find love ...have fun ...discover happiness and anyone who tells you any different are very shallow indeed. I've never been an oil painting myself but i have never had any problem attracting the opposite sex.
    I can think of a couple of extremely hansome men friends in my life who never scored ...when i ALWAYS did ...it used to drive them mad.
    It's about personality.
    It will happen for you ...if you don't try to hard ...maybe not even try at all ...don't let it become an issue inside of you or it will show on the outside.
    Have fun ...make other people feel good about themselves ...and you will make out ...thats a promise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, I'm getting to the point, it just requires a lot of thinking..

    I think really it's just that sometimes I would prefer to do drugs, not per se but simply because it's all less hassle. People don't get so uptight about drugs, though obviously some people disapprove of them. For example in Shameless, when Marty has a go at someone for being too old to shag. But no-one's regarded as too old for drugs. I think it's stuff like that I'm getting at. Drugs is a pleasure that can last for a lifetime, sex isn't. (at least, this seems to be society's way of thinking). And yet, when you think about, there are awkward things about drugs, like making sure it's the right stuff, trying not to damage your health, etc. But then I'd be excluded from being judged because people would just think 'oh, he's into drugs, he's a drugs kind of person'. So then whether or not I've been laid would become irrelevant, or at least less relevant. I'm not even sure it'll last forever, we all go through phases and that. I would like particularly like to know if anyone on these boards is going through the same thing.

    That probably seems like a strange and long-winded post, but is basically the burden I carry with me every day.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Look WLH ...i know some god damn ugly people ...who are in love ...some in lust ...at some point or points they get sex ...and you will too. Seriously ...you do not have to look like something off the cover of a magazine to get sex find love ...have fun ...discover happiness and anyone who tells you any different are very shallow indeed. I've never been an oil painting myself but i have never had any problem attracting the opposite sex.
    I can think of a couple of extremely hansome men friends in my life who never scored ...when i ALWAYS did ...it used to drive them mad.
    It's about personality.
    It will happen for you ...if you don't try to hard ...maybe not even try at all ...don't let it become an issue inside of you or it will show on the outside.
    Have fun ...make other people feel good about themselves ...and you will make out ...thats a promise.

    Cheers, that's very good advice. :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    Reasons why this might be the case:

    - Drugs are not elitist. No-one is rejected. If they've got enough money, and know where to go, the drugs will not reject them.

    - As a system of pleasure, they do not depend on anyone being in the mood, or in the right place in the right time.

    - You are not sad if you pay for drugs. That's the idea!

    - Less of a problem if people make mistakes with it.

    - Less danger of being tricked, which I would define as someone only wanting to sleep with you because they are drunk or for your money. In the case of drugs, it would be the substance being cut with something else.

    Yeay or nay?

    I suppose got me writing this is one time when they told us at college that we shouldn't take drugs, and should be having good sex instead. But in the real world good sex isn't available to everyone. Quite a few people either don't have any or they have to be drunk to do it.

    So why not just do drugs?


    lol.........

    I'm guessing you don't have a lot of sex
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WLH wrote: »
    Cheers, that's very good advice. :thumb:
    Stick around this place and talk to some of the younger members in the health forum and the sex forum ...i don't personaly go in the sex one ...i'm sure your not alone.
    I'm actualy in my fifties and have smoked weed for forty years ...still enjoy the stuff and guess what ...i'm still enjoying sex as well!
    Go talk to some of the younger members and i'm sure you'll get some understanding and good advice.
    Be ready for a bit of flack as well ...theres a fair bit of slagging and piss taking goes on but ...you can handle that i'm sure.
    All the best ...and do keep popping in here as well.
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