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@AnonymousToe this does sound really stressful, I'm sorry you're going through this especially during the holidays I'm wondering if you've been able to take some space and time away from this situation and do other things that are less stressful because it sounds like a lot. I also know that it's exhausting trying to rationalize with someone who is a hoarder, it feels like logic doesn't have any space in the conversation. I hope reading through this thread you can see that your mindset is quite normal, and you're seeing things in a logical way which is probably why this situation is so incredibly frustrating. You deserve rest and space away from everything, I hope you get that during this upcoming week

I understand where your coming from Im here if you need anything

that sounds like a lovely idea, and one i'm sure your sister will really appreciate, no matter what you write

i also get where you're coming from @bignosegirly0 - i think it's somewhat common for people to be not like the bags under their eyes. i know mine can sometimes look quite dark, particularly in certain lightings. but i think at the end of the day they just make us who we are. some people's are less visible and others are more so - and that is okay. i think everything stardust has said i agree with and hopefully in time they just become a feature on your face that you grow to love. but for now here is another reminder that you are beautiful as you are, and no amount of 'eyebags' can take away from that

sending lots of hugs
Sinead

you're doing so well @eylah - keep going we are all super proud of you