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  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,841 Supreme Poster
    hi @LolaPumpkin13 . im sry to hear that you’re feeling scared. may I ask why you’re feeling scared? are you ok?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 2,882 Boards Guru
    @LolaPumpkin13 , it sounds like you're going through a really, really distressing time right now and I can hear you're scared. What are frightened of right now? We're here and we're listening.

    Please know that if you'd like some more in-depth, live, 1:1 support, SHOUT and Samaritans are here:

    https://peerchat.link/Samaritans
    https://giveusashout.org/

  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,436 Boards Champion
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13, sorry to hear what you're going through. I can hear that you're feeling scared, and that you're going through a difficult time. You mentioned that you're writing things down but that it doesn't work for you any more - are there any other things that help you to feel calm, that you could try? We're here to support you through this.
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  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I just want some help to become a better person I have been called manipulative controlling possessive I don’t want to be on my own anymore
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I can’t do this anymore
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,744 Extreme Poster
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 can I check if you're feeling safe right now?

    I'm also hearing you're wanting some help and we can definitely take a look at what support organisations we have that we could suggest to you. If you let us know what you're wanting support with specifically, we can take a look.
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I don’t feel safe anywhere
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,744 Extreme Poster
    Hi @LolaPumpkin13 I'm hearing that you don't feel safe anywhere. Can I check if you're experiencing suicidal thoughts please, and if so if you are considering acting on these thoughts?

    Whilst we're not a crisis service, you can text THEMIX to 85258 for free, confidential crisis support. Also, if you did feel at any point that you were going to act on thoughts of suicide, then we would urge you to call the emergency services on 999, or go to your local A&E department to explain your intentions to them, so that they can support you.

    You deserve support Lola and the Community are here for you.
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I’ve tried they just give you posters
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I just want some advice
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,744 Extreme Poster
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 do you feel comfortable sharing what you're wanting advice with?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    Just how to move on
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    And his family doesn’t care or want to help
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    Clearly I’m the problem
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    Why am I just being left to deal with it I’m done
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,841 Supreme Poster
    we’re here for you @LolaPumpkin13 . have you got any support at home etc? someone who you could talk to? sry no one has replied back to you. we care abt you.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I’ve reached out to shout the smartions
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,841 Supreme Poster
    LolaPumpkin13 wrote: »
    I’ve reached out to shout the smartions

    how did reaching out to them go? did it help talking to them?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    Not really
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I even ran back to my abusive ex which he didn’t want which I’m glad but I’m just getting worried about myself
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    It is really freaking me out because it was me
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    He is not coming back and I’m not sure what to do anymore
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    He was my best friend but he is not coming back
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    And I have no clue what to do anymore
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    i was always with him
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I just want some help
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 142 Helping Hand
    I just want to be better but I don’t know how
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