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im at breaking point.

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  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    i hope you get better @eylah
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    he has no right to put his hands on me bc im in crisis doesn’t mean he can do that.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    youre right, he has no right to. when youre in crisis its important to take care of yourself. have you considered getting any mental health help? @eylah
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    oh wait i think you have
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    i havent got the medication yet hes putting me on.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    ah ok
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    i was forced to stay in hospital so i had no other choice and when im in crisis looking after myself is last thing on my mind.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    fair enough. try to stay safe.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    thankyou :).
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    no problem
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    im broken i have nothing to live for i just want to wake up without dad being obnoxious like he is bc i cant deal with this for much longer. ( safe). not suicidal.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    sending hugs @eylah
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    this worse it ever been dad is so obnoxious im so done with this. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AoifeAoife Inactive Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    It sounds like you're going through so much at the moment @eylah. Please know that we're all here for you and you're not alone in what you're going through <3

    You've been so brave sharing with us about how you're feeling and what's been happening at home with your dad. I'm wondering how you would feel about reaching out to someone like Childline or NSPCC about some of the things your dad has been saying to you or if you have anyone at home that knows what's going on?

    I can really hear how alone and trapped you're feeling which is so very tough to be going through. Keep us updated with how you're doing <3

    And remember, if anything makes you feel unsafe or like you don’t want to be here anymore, there are some wonderful services with kind people who can help you through this. I’ve listed a few below for you:
    * Local urgent mental health helpline | Open 24/7 | Find details about your local service here.
    *Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
    *Samaritans (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
    *Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org

    Keeping going Eylah, we're all here for you :star:
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    Aoife wrote: »
    It sounds like you're going through so much at the moment @eylah. Please know that we're all here for you and you're not alone in what you're going through <3

    You've been so brave sharing with us about how you're feeling and what's been happening at home with your dad. I'm wondering how you would feel about reaching out to someone like Childline or NSPCC about some of the things your dad has been saying to you or if you have anyone at home that knows what's going on?

    I can really hear how alone and trapped you're feeling which is so very tough to be going through. Keep us updated with how you're doing <3

    And remember, if anything makes you feel unsafe or like you don’t want to be here anymore, there are some wonderful services with kind people who can help you through this. I’ve listed a few below for you:
    * Local urgent mental health helpline | Open 24/7 | Find details about your local service here.
    *Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
    *Samaritans (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
    *Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org

    Keeping going Eylah, we're all here for you :star:

    thankyou sm i appreciate your response and help your so very kind <3.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    bc of everything just ordered a mcdonald’s bc i cant be bothered to get harassed by going to the kitchen lol.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    edited September 2024
    why a laughing emoji? i dont see how its funny. sry. me being harassed by my dad isnt funny.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,698 Boards Guru
    I’m so sorry to read all this @eylah you don’t deserve to be treated like this by your dad. I think @toffuna101 probably put the laughing react by accident, I know I’ve done that to people before. Big hugs 🫂
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    ok thanks.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    sry im just rly struggling and thought ppl were laughing at my situation so said something. sry
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,985 Boards Guru
    yeah i put it by accident sorry
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,302 Boards Champion
    Hey @eylah, sorry to hear what you've been going through. Just wanted to check in on how you're doing today? We're here to support you <3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hey @eylah, sorry to hear what you've been going through. Just wanted to check in on how you're doing today? We're here to support you <3

    i made a new post instead of posting here abt whats happening rn. ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    bc this is abt my dads abuse and other thread is abt whats happening rn.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    dad’s being abusive again bc i keep crying bc of mum its so unfair. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AoifeAoife Inactive Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    Sending lots of hugs your way @eylah <3

    Do you feel comfy sharing more about the type of abuse that's been happening with your Dad? Do you have anywhere you can go in your home to stay safe from him? We're all here to listen and support you <3
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,240 Legendary Poster
    a lot of abuse @Aoife im not even sure what i can say bc its not nice. sry for not responding until now im going through a lot rn bc of mum etc. sry
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • GemmaGemma Inactive Posts: 1,093 Wise Owl
    @eylah I'm so sorry you're experiencing this - nobody has the right to treat you in this way. You deserve to feel safe, particularly in your own home with your family. Like @Aoife, I wondered if you have anywhere you can go in your home to stay safe from him, or anyone else you can stay with? We care about you <3
    ♡♡♡
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