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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 5,265 Part of The Furniture
    Im sorry to hear that you have been going through so much right now. Im always here if you ever need someone to talk to <3. Im sorry to hear that you recently lost your best friend and I can't imagine how tough is it for you right now to grieve. I hope your doing ok right now <3.
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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 5,265 Part of The Furniture
    Also I hope the tests went well and your doing ok I bet that was frightening for you to hear especially if you have been having pelvic pain. The main thing is that the doctors will try their absaloute best to figure out what's going on and will help you all the way <3. I can imagine having tests must be super challenging and tough for you right now.
    Just a person who likes pop culture and films
  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,302 Boards Champion
    edited September 2024
    Hey @eylah, just wanted to check in on how you're doing today? It sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment, and can understand how that can feel so overwhelming. I'm sorry to hear the way that your dad is treating you, it isn't right or fair on you. You're doing ever so well to keep going. Take things one at a time, and hopefully the storm calms down soon for you <3

    I can imagine that the blood test might come quite as a shock, especially when it came out of nowhere like it did. Waiting for results like this can feel quite worrying, but it's out of your control now. Let the medical staff do their testing for now, and once they give you the answer, you can figure out what needs to be done then. And through this whole period, we'll be here to support you every step of the way. You're not alone :)

    Like others have mentioned, you're absolutely allowed to use this space to express how you're feeling - we're here to listen to you, because your feelings are valid and you matter. It's okay to ask for help when we're in a difficult situation, just as we'd be willing to help a friend when they're in need. Lots of people need help, but that in no way makes your need for help any less valid. There's enough people to help everyone, and we're here to support you <3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    Amy22 wrote: »
    Im sorry to hear that you have been going through so much right now. Im always here if you ever need someone to talk to <3. Im sorry to hear that you recently lost your best friend and I can't imagine how tough is it for you right now to grieve. I hope your doing ok right now <3.

    i miss him sm its very hard bc i only had him to talk to now have noone irl. thankyou <3 im not gd but its ok.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    Amy22 wrote: »
    Also I hope the tests went well and your doing ok I bet that was frightening for you to hear especially if you have been having pelvic pain. The main thing is that the doctors will try their absaloute best to figure out what's going on and will help you all the way <3. I can imagine having tests must be super challenging and tough for you right now.

    i’m just scared bc im to young to have cancer so its terrifying bc i have sm stress atm i rly do not need this on my back bc im so exhausted mentally end physically. thankyou amy. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hey @eylah, just wanted to check in on how you're doing today? It sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment, and can understand how that can feel so overwhelming. I'm sorry to hear the way that your dad is treating you, it isn't right or fair on you. You're doing ever so well to keep going. Take things one at a time, and hopefully the storm calms down soon for you <3

    I can imagine that the blood test might come quite as a shock, especially when it came out of nowhere like it did. Waiting for results like this can feel quite worrying, but it's out of your control now. Let the medical staff do their testing for now, and once they give you the answer, you can figure out what needs to be done then. And through this whole period, we'll be here to support you every step of the way. You're not alone :)

    Like others have mentioned, you're absolutely allowed to use this space to express how you're feeling - we're here to listen to you, because your feelings are valid and you matter. It's okay to ask for help when we're in a difficult situation, just as we'd be willing to help a friend when they're in need. Lots of people need help, but that in no way makes your need for help any less valid. There's enough people to help everyone, and we're here to support you <3

    im not gd rn bc everything is to much for me to handle bc there high chance might have cancer so its to hard to let’health ppl’ do there job bc im on edge.. i feel like im not allowed bc idk i just don’t feel like i am everything is so hard im so alone and i give up with everything. ( safe no suicidal. ).
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    thankyou @Amy22 @Azziman . <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    i’m very alone rn i am having to deal with dad again. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    i’m so scared i’m so alone im so feeling like everything is against me bc my mind is fill. i hate feeling like this bc im scared of being alone even more. i need mum back i need the old me back. im so scared of everything. im sry for posting again just everything is a lot rn for me to handle and opening up to the mix is my only release. sry again.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,698 Boards Guru
    You don’t need to apologise for posting @eylah youre going through a lot
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    thankyou appreciate it. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    i have my first psych appt today im so nervous.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • GemmaGemma Inactive Posts: 1,093 Wise Owl
    I'm sorry you're going through so much @eylah - you don't deserve this and it's understandable it feels like one thing after another at this point. You deserve to be treated with kindness by your dad and it's also understandable you would be nervous about this blood test. It's now wonder you're filled with so much anxiety around it all. Know that we're here for you. <3
    eylah wrote: »
    i have my first psych appt today im so nervous.

    How did your appointment go? Let us know how you're doing <3
    ♡♡♡
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    im not going bc just realised having to walk past my exes house. and dad isnt taking me either. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    keep on fighting for your mental health
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    i font feel safe going :/. and im meeting a guy psych person.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    it's ok, you don't have to go
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    ik.. but i need to lol.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    what did you end up doing?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    what did you end up doing?

    i went :).
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    ive been put on a antipsychotic medication and my psychiatrist want me to speak to a psychologist. i finally feel listened to.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    thats good then. i hope things go well for you tomorrow.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    thats good then. i hope things go well for you tomorrow.

    tmr?😂 nothings happening tmr lol 😂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    oh then have a good day regardless
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    im to scared to tell dad just in case he calls me crazy again. thats put me in a bad mood bc i walked in the house and get shit from him. trying to keep my positive mood bc i was so happy that im getting help.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    idk if im loved atp bc im just getting abuse down my throat by dad. hes so verbal. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    sending hugs your way <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    hes exhausting me im so drained from being his target. :/ idk why im always being targeted by men my ex my ex friend now my dad im sick of it. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,988 Boards Guru
    that must be hard to deal with @eylah your dad really sucks to be honest
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,266 Legendary Poster
    hes horrible i want mum back home so im away from him. :/
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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