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Not really. Had that taste you get with foam bananas
Rather stick to spiced rum
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Aww, thanks so much for your compliments. I do try to be kind and supportive and I am glad you think I am!
It is often the worst when little things build up into thinking everything is all bad. Are you able to unpick all of the little things? This could be on here, to someone you trust, or in writing.
The most important thing is that you have already recognised that you are in a bad place and you know what has caused this. Identifying what is wrong can help you to find strategies for managing each.
A coffee, snack and potentially shopping later sound like a great plan! My plans are to listen to music
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@Laura_tigger82 that’s true, I’ve tried to recognise it and deal with it but it’s hard. My partner has been great, he’s listened to my half hour long rants about all the little things several times this week lol. Ooh I’ll probably listen to some music too, what kind of music do you like?
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Just trying to keep distracted today
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Nice. I need to get some wine in
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Of course, it is hard @independent_ and I am really sorry to hear you are experiencing a tough time. I am really glad to hear you have someone who you can trust and talk to though
My music taste is wide-ranging and varies from Bring Me The Horizon and Eminem to Taylor Swift and Ed Sheeran and some country music too! What types of music do you like?
I hope we can help to distract you @GreenTea. What do you normally find distracts you? For me, it is music, movies, colouring, and warm baths!
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@Laura_tigger82 ooh, my music taste is very similar, I don’t like any specific genres, if I like a song then I like a song. There are no limits. But I do especially like upbeat dance and hard style music. But I also like Ed Sheeran. My playlist is very random.
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Ah good luck!
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Our music range sounds very similar @independent_
What are your most frequently played songs at the moment? I would be interested in hearing everyone's responses to this question too!
How are you feeling about your mocks at the moment @zaynab_5? You sound really determined which is always great to hear! Just make sure you take some time off for you too over this break
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Welcome lovely 💜
Got so much to do today but literally no motivation lol
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Do lists work for you?
I know my automatic motivator is to-do lists!
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I would agree with most of yours.
For Taylor Swift, I would add Our Song, I'm Only Me When I'm With You, and The Best Day
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Nah no deadlines. Mostly just tidying
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The other thing I enjoy is putting on my wireless headphones and dancing along to music whilst doing chores.
I sense a Taylor Swift day for you @zaynab_5 ! So many good songs and albums
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How do you normally motivate yourself @GreenTea? With rewards afterward is another possibility?
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