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Tomboys: y/n?
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Just wondering what people think, do they look immature/a phase that will be grown out of/angry? Was in a debate about this with my friend, will be interested to see what other people think!
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You want to see angry and awkward, put me in a dress, skirt or anything of the such (haven't owned one in probably 15 years).
Perhaps it just means you're a submissive lesbian trapped in a man's body...;)
My life, my choice of clothing.
Haha, you could be right.
I'm sure those who hitherto thought lesbian relationships were two dimensional stereotypes will be thankful for being alleviated of that prejudice.
Really! All the ones in the movies just want to get naked and have sex - are you suggesting that real life may be more complex?
Gosh, well thanks Captain Obvious
Dammit, another bubble burst by TheSite
I'm really in to tomboys - my OH is one and she's the first 'tomboy' I've ever been with and I think that's what was lacking in all my previous relationships. She can be feminine when required but is what I call an 'honorary bloke' - one of the many reasons why she's definitely 'the one'.
I wouldn't consider the butch half of a lesbian relationship to be a 'tomboy' though - I would probably use 'boyish'.
:banghead:
It is - and it's not painful at all. It's not an expression I would ever use for anyone else. She and I have our own 'language' that we would only use on each other because it's us.
OK I'm sorry you've taken it that way but that's not the manner in which it is intended. She often displays some traditional 'bloke' tendencies. So much so that I use that expression to jokingly suggest that sometimes the only thing stopping her being a bloke at times is the physiological side of it. Some people are awarded the title of 'Honorary Knighthood' because for whatever reason they don't qualify for a full Knighthood.
In no way am I suggesting that being male is somehow 'superior'.
Come and have a hug. I'll wear my check shirt, denim jacket and grow a moustache
It still kind of suggests that there are things that are only for blokes.
Again, that's your perception but is in no way what I'm suggesting.
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I'm a stereotype and I'm OK. I'm Camp all night and wear denim all day
High five!
I drive a Megane anyway
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