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She slept with 25 men!!
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Ive just started goin out with a girl and she told me she has slept with 25 men!! I was pretty shocked! What would you do/think if you were me?? Is it normal? Shes 26.
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Personally, I wouldn't be too worried. I take it most of them were one night stands etc? The only time I'd be worried, was if she slept with more than one person at a time (as in cheated on someone with someone else, not threesomes etc).
Also... If you know she didn't use protection, I'd get checked for STI's :thumb:
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It suggests she has an open and healthy attitude to the physical side of a relationship.
That question makes it sound as if she's keeping count.
true, its probably a lot more than other 26 year olds.. but good on her i say. as long as she was safe and she's happy about it thats what counts.
I personally am just over half that amount and im 22! do i care? no. do i care if other people think its too many? .. no
Why?
Does it matter how many people she's slept with? Whether individually or in multiples. She's sleeping with YOU now.
No, I ment like... cheated on someone. Not threesomes I'll edit my post so it makes sense.
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Seriously tho, do nothing. This number is neither grounds to ridicule someone, nor to brand them as a (man)slut.
Don't be such a man-baby and accept the fact that more men wanted to sleep with her than women wanted with you, because don't kid yourself. You'd slept with 25 women if you could have.
And you get top benefit from her experiences. Lucky you eh?
If she's been sexually active since she was 16, it'd be less than 3 a year. As long as she's been safe, game on :thumb:
If she did it because she wanted to it's far better than to have sex with only a few because you were desperate. I personally haven't had sex with a lot of people but some I had sex with for the shittiest of reasons and I'll never be able to wash that away.
My point is, women can and do enjoy sex so why hold it against them? Just be sure to be safe and enjoy having met somebody you (hopefully) like as a person. :thumb:
That made me laugh
Present
Future
Which two really count in a relationship?
I'd report it to Mi5. She's cleary a terrorist.
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haaaaaaaaa
unless you're into that kinda thing ...
Or she is Deceased?
I knew you were a kinky bastard
Le sigh.
LOL