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Nice girl. Shame about the face.
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And by the way Tinkler, thought the way you spoke to Helen was bang out of order
You're right he was, Luckily Christele was online and she banned him to prevent any further aggro last night. Usually, bans aren't issued without warning so we'll see what happens.
Fair enough
No not you, Tinkler.
Nooooo, you div. Tinkler was banned.
Anyway for those who care, its not going to work. Not only her face, but I found some of her behaviour quite inappropriate. We were at a very important client dinner yesterday, she was introduced to a rather well respected lady (friends with Zara Philips and Princess Beatrice), she was introduced to her and within 30 seconds asked her "Are you on Facebook, can we be Facebook friends?", to which the girl was confused/bemused. Can't have anyone important thinking the girl I'm with is a weirdo.
However, she's really good in bed, and I may as well carry this on until something better comes my way.
Never mind...
Actually, no. Mate, don't mess the girl around if she actually likes you. If she is after a casual thing, then cool, otherwise just go pick up another girl for sex (you do have a foolproof technique, after all )! No point somebody getting hurt. You also don't want to hurt your rep by people thinking you're a twat (and no, I am not talking about on here...) if she is so well connected etc.
Stringing her along, nice.:rolleyes:
Me too :yes:
If she ACTUALLY exists that is :chin:
My friend's just told me something about her on a similar theme of inappropriate behaviour - mainly through not knowing British etiquette and correct terminology for some things as she's foreign - that's totally put me off.
Having a fling or fuck buddy is fine if you are BOTH aware that is the situation and I'm not certain that this girl does. Have you told her that you just want her for some sex until something better comes along?
Oh and just because your female friend has said it's ok doesn't mean it is in the slightest! That's like saying "I have a black friend so that means that I can't possibly be racist". Your female friend might be a complete twat as well, it has nothing to do with being female - it's up to the individual.
As for "I won't get a bad rep being a bastard if I do this subtly" - so you admit that you ARE being a bastard! Finally. And also it shouldn't all be about reputation but I'll leave that where it is before we get back onto the shallowness of "young city professionals" again.
Where exactly has he said anything racist...all he stated was that she doesn't know everything about british etiquette because she's foreign. Most of the people I know who aren't British will openly admit that they struggle to sometimes know exactly how they should behave. For example my best mate is half Sweedish, half Polish - she finds it a really strange concept that we say thank you to bus drivers when we get off.
I will agree here though. As long as both parties are aware that it's nothing but a fling then it's ok, otherwise you are really using her which isn't something that I can aprove of. It's crap being in that situation and no matter how subtley it's done, in the end when you split up with her for someone else she will realise and it'll hurt.
Let's say you're dating a foreign bloke KHSS. His English is a bit shit. When he meets your friends, he says things that are supposed to be innocent, but come out as completely inappropriate or have embarrassing sexual connotations. Like instead of saying "You look very nice" to your friend he'll say "You are the sexy". Or instead of "May I dance with you?" it will be "Can I be sexy on you?". It is NOT fucking "racist" to find that culture clash / poor English a problem. Fucking idiot, bandying around the "racist" card.
And no, she [my female friend]'s definitely not a "twat". A completely normal person. Not in my "young professional" circle, not doing a grad job, shock horror.
anyway I gave you advice (leave her if you are not attracted to her, or work on it and give your feelings a chance to grow) that you've completely disregarded. You say that you are going to keep her for sex until something better comes along which I think is really wrong and I feel sorry for her.
I know, seriously. The man is a Class A Cunt.
I also cant believe hes still here.....:banghead:
Same here, since he is a complete twat who has no respect for women and also what he said to Helen was bang out of order i thought he would've been kicked well off the site