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That's fucking ridiculous.
Going through eachothers phones i would say is normal, if you are very close to someone why on earth wouldn't you read their messages.
I would be suspicious of any regular texting of females, but that depends on whether your bf has lots of girl mates or not.
Thanks hun. I wouldn't say it was 'normal', and if you don't do it you're weird, but it is possible to just be doing it because you're nosey, which some people don't believe just because they don't do it :rolleyes:
Can I just say, isn't it up to them what they do?? Leave them to it, you're not gonna see eye to eye.
But btw, I do agree with a lot of what you've said, which hopefully proves I aren't the jealous, bunny-boiling type, and am only bothered by this whole thing because the texts have been deleted.
because that's called privacy. 2 Partners are still individual people. It's like I check your dirty laundry for poo stains. There are some things nobody else needs to know...
Maybe i'm an open person then. Things that are private are in my mind, once you write something in a text you have little control over who sees it. I find it difficult to liken it to checking dirt laundry for poo stains.
well, it's MY cell phone, so I have enough control over who reads it. If I can't trust my partner to not sniff around in my private stuff if I have it lying around, then I can't see the relationship working anyway...
so have you asked him about all this yet then? im wondering what his take on this is...
WOW! Congrats!
I am SO slow! Well done, lady!