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Lads - how much do you show off 'getting lucky'?
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When I pull a random in a club, take them back home etc, I seem to be more interested in (implicitly) showing off to my mates that I'm getting lucky rather than being private and intimate with the girl. I want my friends to see me score, go home with a girl etc, for the positive banter/kudos that will gain. Am I a loser lol, or do a lot of you blokes do similar? I see it as a bit of a game, maybe a bit of a competition, that's the thrill-seek.
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Exactly what I was thinking!
I went through thr same stage. I pulled some guy when I went to Uni which was fun in the bar, wasn't enjoying it too much in the sack then the next day felt great again. I think it's cos when i went to Uni I'd only ever slept with my boyfriend and all my mates had slept with up to 10 lads and I felt a bit left out/young. It was immaturity more than anything. I've grown up now and still enjoy pulling but I usually wait to have sex these days and know that I'm not doing it just to make myself feel better.
Lol, that's what I thought.
Sorted a new IP address laaa ?
Yep and a sad twat to boot.
I'm with IWS - it sounds as if you're rather insecure.
If I'm getting with a girl, then I don't give a fuck who knows, it's all about me and her - no one else.
I'm such an intensely private person that I'd rather people didn't know. It's none of their business really. But then, I'm old and don't feel like I have to prove anything.
You know, I really object to the use of the word "us" in there. On two counts:
1. Because it suggests that all men are as dysfunctional as you are, when it comes to women.
2. Because it suggests that you should be consdiered a "man"
And there, my fellow users, is the key to this whole thread.
Both Ricardo, and in this instance, Matt appear to have confidence and self esteem issues. One, Ricardo, addresses this by trying to "big himself up" in front of his friends. Matt's approach seems to be more a case of trying to belittle women.
IMHO
That depends. When it is done with mutual respect, when it's about two people experimenting and exploring their sexuality then no, it's not a bad thing. When it's more a case of "me man, you woman" hit over the head with a club and drag her by the hair to your cave approach which you seen to prefer then it's a very bad.
It is one thing to boost your confidence, but another to do it at the expense of someone else.
Yeah that's exactly what I was saying. You know me, no respect for women at all.
Oh hang on, that's you not me.
You can type what you think we want to read Matt. But you are still the same person with offensive views on rape and a rather unhealthy apprach to women who has been posting on this site for a few years now.
I'd like to think that you've changed but anyone reading last weeks thread will know that you haven't.
its what us lads do. I usually don't bother when I'm in a club, I'm usually pre occupied with her and her assets than I am showing them off to my mates.
I don't reckon y'know. Not anymore anyway.
I don't feel as if I have anything to prove to my mates.
Exactly.
Great minds .. just thinking the EXACT same thing
You're right. I'm making it all up, imagaining it all.
Of course, there are these things which you have previously said:
And then there's these. Hell I only had to look at a couple of threads for that little lot. Good job I didn't try very hard, wasn't it?
If he is a cunt / has fucked up views ....copying and pasting 10,000 posts won't ever change that, just proves you've a lot of time on your hands.
Dpends on the topic, when it's about women and he tries to portay himself as caring about them and their feelings then it's relevant because that's not how he truly feels.
Hardly, those came from a couple of threads.
It's never a waste of time to highlight when someone says about rape "Deep down you were probabaly turned on and part fo you wanted it."
It's defo on the cards.