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Is it ok to date more than 1 person at the same time? I mean, if you are casually just going for dates with someone, is it ok to go on dates with other people?
I mean, if you go on a date with someone, you don't even know if you are going to see them again do you?
Also, is it still ok to go out and pull if you are casually going on dates with someone?
Opinions please
I mean, if you go on a date with someone, you don't even know if you are going to see them again do you?
Also, is it still ok to go out and pull if you are casually going on dates with someone?
Opinions please
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I don't see why not, if ONSes are your thing and none of the people you're seeing is actually a bf/gf (or if they are but don't mind).
I've never actually done it myself but it would be interesting to see how it would work out. Did anyone see that SATC episode when Charlotte decided to do change and saw two guys in one night then the one of them saw her kissing the other outside her flat...busted!
I don't even see the problem with this. As long as you're not in a relationship you can do what you want - assuming everything is safe
Yes to both. If you haven't discussed being 'exclusive' then yes. If you start liking someone and considering a proper relationship, you won't want to see anyone else.
Have some fun and enjoy. Just don't go to the same places on dates with different guys
Haha, just gone and had a read
Anyways, you've all kinda said what I think. I mean, I wouldn't be arsed if one of the guys I was dating was pulling/dating other people so yanno, in my head its ok. Until anything is exclusive then yanno, I don't see the problem. If it went as far as sex with either of them though, then I'd reconsider. I'm just talking about dates
I'd agree with rachie about being careful who you sleep with, but that's more for your sake than anyone else. Don't get hurt.
What if you met a guy you like and go for another date but find out he's also dating other women while he's also dating you? Would you have a problem with that ?
Would you be honest with a guy if he asked if your seeing anyone while your on a date with him?
Personally if I was on date with a girl and found out she was also dating other blokes, I'd be fine with it, to a degree providing I felt I wasn't being lead on by her. It can be hard to meet people and judging them on one date can V be risky. So in that sense you'd need to see same guy more then once, whilst also ensuring you didn't miss out on someone who's perfect for you. So yes dating more then one person is ok imo.:thumb:
Then I see no problem with it.
:yes: Its not a game anyway. If you want to have a casual thing then you should be honest to the other person that want something casual, but telling them that your seeing other people casually as well is a bad idea and will give someone the wrong impression about you.
YOU HAVE NO
Noone to share my with thats all!
Exactly.
I dont give a shit about you. I'm providing advice to the OP! (Very clever edit BTW)
i played on the quiz machine thing tonight!! and yes we did pub quiz..i won a quid. har. i am brushing up on my skillz.
I know we're married but you dont show me love often now
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this is only ok if both parties know where things stand, im sure we've all been in a relationship where one person thinks its going really well and moving on then the other person breaks up with them or something.
and also what do you define as oficial? is it when you sit down and agree your a couple or is it when your friends know about it? or your mum? the key is communication, if both parties are happy then fine but personally i would feel uncomfortable about seeing a girl who was dating someone else or dating someone when i was seeing someone, im a bit old fashioned tho
Agreed!!
Bird might think giving the other chap a bj and doesn't think it makes them official. Not saying it does or doesn't, all I know is I'd rather not be kissing her the day after!!
Likewise if blokes been drinking from the furry cup all night and then has date with you next day, you gonna be happy having him all kissing you?