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She thinks i'm a liar
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I've got to know this really wonderful girl over the last 6 months and i thought there was a real chance of a relationship, she's been through a lot recently and i've been helping her financially as she was unable to work.
The problem is i asked her out some time ago and she said that she needed to think about it and a couple of months later she sent me a txt saying that she can't because she thinks i lie through my teeth.
I've never lied to her at all and haven't got a clue where she gets this from but she seems really reluctant to talk to me, i'm a really honest guy and i just can't think of a way to show her that.
The problem is i asked her out some time ago and she said that she needed to think about it and a couple of months later she sent me a txt saying that she can't because she thinks i lie through my teeth.
I've never lied to her at all and haven't got a clue where she gets this from but she seems really reluctant to talk to me, i'm a really honest guy and i just can't think of a way to show her that.
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In any case, doesn't sound like she's interested in you and is just looking for petty excuses.
As are men.
What is your malfunction?
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You really do have some serious issues, mate.
That said, if she thinks you're a liar you have to think about what you are trying to prove by "winning her". Is she worth it? I personally wouldn't bother moving hell and high water for someone who thinks that.
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If you really havn't given her any reason to think you're dishonest then fuck her. Do better.
Anyway - don't bother with her. It's not worth it
thats sure told us then
You were waiting months for her reply? I'd back off and not worry what she thinks.
Maybe best to avoid all contact with her and wouldn't provide her with any more money. If she can't be arsed to give you details about why she thinks that about you then I'd leave her well alone. She got money off you and might be trying to milk some more without having to be in a relationship with you.
Hope you get over her and find someone nice!
No, most women don't need a good spanking.
Although discipline can be fun in the right situation.
So did I Matt, the biggest problem with making sexist comments is you actually draw the attention away from the OP to yourself - that's as good a reason as any to stop being sexist tbh.
Yes, it does make you a bad person.
Who exactly is that aimed at? And "real life"? Are we not real people then?
Ironic? How so? You want to explain that a little better?
Personally, I don't consider sweeping statements about how women are manipulative creatures or how most need a good spanking to be small things, but then again it isn't really all that controversial to me, its what I've come to expect from your posts.
"oh noes someone said i'm a bad person because i made a sexist comment - i'd better go and rethink my whole life!"
I think some people on here take peoples posts a little too seriously sometimes! I've also noticed that certain people seem to get jumped on for no good reason, i can bet that if someone other than MattLiverpool made the spanking comment there wouldnt have even been a problem and it would have been taken as a joke as i assume it was originally meant anyway.
So...back to the op, I'd just leave things mate, she sounds like a user who was just after a quick buck. cut your losses and try to move on
To be fair matt - you ought to think a bit more carefully before you make comments like that. They were quite sexist.
It doesn't matter if you care or not - you should just think more carefully before you post something that will probably cause offence. Good manners an all....
She takes months to decide, she won't talk to you, and she brands you a liar? I hate to be blunt but you need to pull your head out of your arse and acknowledge that she doesn't give a shit about you. It hurts, yes, but not as much in persisting in chasing after someone who doesn't want you and doesn't even have the grace to say no diplomatically.
My thoughts exactly.
I don't think you owe her any money, it's a shame she thinks that of you, and I think really you shouldn't be bailing her out. Surely she's got family to help her out? How rich, to someone who's helping you out in at tricky situation to say 'you lie through your teeth'. No respect. If she thought badly of you, why accept the money? Or, and I hate to say it, but was she out for what she could get? That's pure speculation though, but if she played the sympathy card once too often, then you coughed up the cash she needed, then you want to see her and she thinks you're a liar, maybe she's just playing you? But, I can't say one way or the other,I just think it's suspicious she thinks you're untrustworthy but is letting you pay her bills etc.
In my opinion anyone who says to me I lie through my teeth is obviously not very respectful of me, and I wouldn't want a relatinoship with someone like that.
I agree.
And lets face it, a lot of women are