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So, honestly...
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what is it about introverts you women hate? Or do men have to be loud and obnoxious before you consider them date worthy? :impissed:
And why can't I register a new name?! :impissed:
And why can't I register a new name?! :impissed:
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I am with the king of introverts, and I had to chase him every step of the way. It was definitely worth it, but you don't know that straight away, and I think a lot of other women would just have given up and/or assumed he wasn't interested.
I think extrovert guys do better in pubs/clubs etc. But if you already know the girl, from work or wherever, then I don't think it makes too much of a difference. Of course you still need the confidence to ask her out, and to keep advancing the physical side. Most girls prefer the guy to lead.
I think its the manner in which the loud extrovert displays and presents him/herself that makes an impression. Certainly if they are egotistical then yeah they are wank, but if they will take the time to talk and introduce themselves in a fashion that is not condescending or imposing - it oozes confidence.
and unfortunately for us mere mortals, makes the ladies melllllllllllllt
women dont like loud and obnoxious i mean some chicks do...but they like a man with confidence and who can hold a conversation and be strong.
it doesnt mean a big buff guy...heck i know some girls who are attracted to short or skinny guys who have a powerful charisma and personality....
if your timid a girl aint gonna go for you unless you have a huge bank account or monster dick.
monster dicks might scare a womaN
lol man these guys dont know it aint about looks its about self esteem! some ugly guys have some hot chicks and some guys can get a good cute girl with a funny sweet personality.
if your timid and got no personality or style well you will. just have to marry and amish gal.
Yea it bollocks. I swear half these people expect girls to fall from the sky. Girls don't tend to want you if you don't put any work in to begin with...
yup
its not even hard at all...
yu dont even have to do much...just be confident show interest with out acting desperate and tease a chick and act like you have other things important...its not hard really.
women hate those lovey dovey desperate types who will do anything they want...women love the guy who is a challenge.
Yea, with my last girlfriend I didn't ask for her number for ages when we first met. It did her head in! haha. I played on it cus I knew I'd see her out and stuff.
After a while she was just like 'so do you want my number or what!?' I said I'd take it if she really wanted to give it to me.
Yea, I used to be a real cunt.
ya you have to have other options! women only cling to you and dont let you go if other women are intereted...
see women are all about the game...
if you dont have other women or options interested you gotta act like you do...women hate clingy men.
the key is when she cries dont cry with her comfort her...that show strength
if someone close to you dies or gets hurt cry with her she will hold you.
but if you get your feelings hurt dont cry she wont like you and think your a wuss.
girls are very tricky they want a guy who is sensitive yet strong...
Clinginess puts me off though, in fact it would be the prime reason I'd probably go off a girl.
I'll play with them, but I like a challenge too.
don't be so dismissing to assume that all girls like loud men - i certainly don't
http://www.thesite.org.uk/community/reallife/rants/niceboys kermits rant is good
As if the girls don't like men who care about them.
Guess I am meeting the wrong focus group.
I have to agree, these generalisations are really quite disturbing. The important thing is to get to know people as individuals, rather than trying to build a list of theories which you believe apply to 'all women'.
I was about to post something very similar. :yes:
Bitterness is never an attractive quality, especially when it's misplaced. Stop blaming 'women' and these loud, buff guys for your social failure. If you want to get a girl, you have to get out and meet people, cause they wont come looking for you if you sit back and just complain about how you've been wronged, and the collective female population just pick the village idiot every time cause he's got a big mouth, or a big car, or a big dick.
If you are loud and sociable and you ask 500 girls out, even if you're the most horrendous monster, by the laws of probability at least one is gonna say yes. If you are quiet and shy and don't ask any girls out, NONE of them are gonna say yes. That's just the way the world works.
:yes:
For me this is very true.
It's never worked like that and it never will do. Yes, it's not fair, but it's the OP's fault/problem he can't get a girlfriend.