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I'm a slag.
Sorry I didn't mean to imply that you weren't.
I'm just trying to say people should have sex when they want. Don't be pressured into having sex and don't be pressured into staying a virgin.
I find it incredible that some people still don't believe in sex before marriage. Sounds stupid to me.
problem with not believing in sex till marriage is....you might never get married, or not till you're like 40 or something....
Hear hear!
My mates used to defend themselves, and all rushed to make sure they were 'de-virginised.' and ALL of them regret it.
I chose to wait.... Admittedly I didn't wait long but I'm happy with my choice, as I'm still with the guy I lost it to over a year later. Whereas most of the girls I know weren't with the lad they lost it to til the end of that week, let alone month or year!
Sex is pretty much over-rated, i've never done a girl sober before, doesn't really feel that good when your drunk, definately not the shit you see in pornos anyway.
You need a regular bird mate.
I know...I'm not really a girls type of guy...that species couldn't handle me.
I'm pretty much the same. I havn't had many long term relationships, I get bored and they get fed up with my mates.
your point being?
lots of relationships don't last, whether you're 15 or 35, whether its the first time or the 100th time you've had sex.
Because most of the girls went into the relationship looking to lose their virginity, rather than because they liked the guy. Sorry, shoulda made that more clear
I wonder how these opinions develop? Is it from friends and the environment you grow up in or is it totally down to individual opinion?
hmm interesting ...
anyways, no i'm not a virgin
I've had the chance to lose it, but the person / time hasn't been right.
No biggie really. I'd rather be in a settled relationship. I guess i class fun and games as monopoly and tig.
Simply remaining a virgin is nothing to be proud of, and nothing to be ashamed of either.
agree :yes:
Maybe I should word it differently: If I was given a choice now, to keep being a virgin or not to, I'd choose to stay one.
But I have never been given that choice, and that's all that bothers me pertraining to virginity.
Well, duh. ;p
Listen, all virgins are liars, honey.