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well why did you not say that in the original post? and why did you say it in that manner? i mean, are you expecting us to read "girls have abortion for the fun of it" and assume you were talking about some girl in your school who laughed about her abortion, fuck we'd need some sort of telepathic powers to do that.
good point, never noticed that myself
You are upset at this girl "laughing about it"- why? Why should she be upset after an abortion, why should she care about it?
:yes: i think he loves it really.
yeah, guess who done that?
until next time someone misunderstands you (because you can't articulate yourself) and you go flying off the handle.........but im glad you feel better.
why the hell should the rest of the site have to dumb down to accomodate you?
thats how it may seem luke but it's not really like that
You seem to think she should be guilty and wailing and depressed. Why?
To be honest, if someone really did behave like lukesh claims, I would be concerned that they were either traumatised or disturbed.
But Lukesh isn't making that point, he's implying that she, and abortion, are bad because she isn't morose.
I had one and Im not ashamed. I never regretted it for a minute.
To summarise, I'm a fuckian pedo who eats babies and rapes children, and everyone else should fuckian die!!!111
Not all women.
And nopbody has yet to answer my question, which was: why should she feel remorse or sadness?
Luke, that's what you've said and implied. Otherwise you wouldn't have said it.
The context means that you are being critical because she isn't depressed and guilty, and feels no shame. You've said as much. Now obviously you think this is wrong, otherwise you wouldn;t say it made you "angry".
Why do you think it is wrong?
Glad that it amuses you Luke.
luke, i think you see an issue, get some sort of idea about it and totally disregard any other possiblities, not a good thing to do, and thats a tip for life, not just politics. questioning and acceptance are key...remember that.
Because of the potential. I can only go on what I might feel. I would feel grief because I had destroyed the potential for life in a way that is more deliberate than anything else.
I'm only using the word potential because I remember the 15 pages of 'what is life' last abortion debate. I would consider it alive.
Well I for one think youre an offensive little shit who has no place here and you deserve to be banned for the things you have said.
SOOOO many decent debates are getting ruined.
You got angry because she wasn't taking it "seriously". Why?
i'm not sure, i mean, even if a women has no problem with abortion, it's a set belief of hers, there'll be a moment, even if it's just a split second where the reality hits you...it must be horrible but it's something that i can judge or blame someone for doing.
so you're expecting us to do all the work, we can only extend our arms half way, it's up to you to go the other half, you play the victim a lot, i understand you have problems but to say it's all our fault is stupid.