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wot age were u?
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just a thought as everybody on here minus me seems to have slept with somebody, im 15 and by the looks of it behind, i was just wondering not being nosey but what ages were you when you lost your virginity?
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I was and still am 15! You are definetly not behind! And you shouldnt force yourself because apparently everyone else has had sex. In my close group of friends out of 5 of us theres only 2 of us that have had sex. I only had sex cos i was ready and me and the girl were really in love not because 'everyone else' was at it!
Don't read too much into that - what with this being the sex forum and everything, the vast majority of people on here have had sex.
And being a virgin at 15 is in no way being left behind.
The average is about 17, if memory serves me right.
Losing your virginity isnt a race, its a thing to be done when the time is right for you.
Yes, well said. :yes:
I was 16 when I gave it away.
nowt i can do now though.
Lost it at that age because i was desperate to find out what all the hype was about. Wanted to know.
Wish id waited longer.
*giggles*
It's 16 now apparently .
I'm 17 and still a virgin. And I'm not exactly slitting my wrists over it :rolleyes:
*puts big fat ditto marks under what kaffrin said*
lmao!!! very true and well said :yes:
SS xx
However looking back I wish I could have held out for another girl because it didn't last with this girl (but obviously I didn't really know that at the time).
So yeah, I guess if I could go back in time I would change it, but I'm not overly bothered about it all. I think people generally make too big a thing about it anyway.
WTF! i bet you fecking exploded man :E
jeez you shoulda taken a pic of your nuts before hand, i bet they were the size of melons
personally....15, wrong person wrong time
Looking back now, it was when I was 16. Which was also crap, and I should have waited etc. Should have waited till I was 20!
Most girls I know, who lost their virginity "early", regret it now. But you do kind of want to get it out of the way and are curious to see what it's like, and totally pressured into it by hormone loaded boys.
Being a young teenager was really hard! People at school gossip about your private life (they did for me anyway) and you get a reputation as a "slag" just because you make one mistake.
Anyway, I'm glad all those years are over.
And just cos im nice i'll reply properly.
I was 15, i Dont really regret doing it with him, although i know i did it for the wrong reason. i did it to shut him up and stop nagging me to have sex with him. Just like all the things i did with him i was pressured. When he first gave me oral, i heard him bragging to his mates that he foursed himself on me.
Depends what you mean by bad doesnt it?
I dont think its healthy, but if you dont regret then then who am I to judge?
Don't compare yourself to other people. Do it when it feels right to you, not when it feels right to your mates
by all means, wait until you are ready but it's sex. it's animal instinct and people are doing it right now all over the world.