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Maybe that's what it's like for people like you but to people like us it's special, we like it that way :rolleyes:
i can't take people serioiusly when they use :rolleyes: emoticon. its so overused and makes you look stupid.
If its not special then youre not doing it right.
oh please.
i wasn't talking about sex i was talking about losing your virginity. it's when people build it up to be this life-changing event, when really sex is something that happens everyday.
i've only just woken up, so i really can't be bothered.
Oh, fair enough, but you were talking about people having sex all the time so meh.
Everyone is different and some people are quite capable of seperating sex from emotion, but I think for girls especially, the two are intwined. Trust me, it hurts to sleep with someone who isn't even interested in talking to you or how you feel, but just in getting themselves off. It hurts to feel used. That's why people need to be careful with their feelings.
yes i do agree with that. i don't think i could ever have a drunken one night stand for that reason because i would probably feel empty and used after it.
:rolleyes:
I'm 16 and a virgin. I'd lose it if it was with someone I liked a lot etc. But I'd like to say that for every time not just my first so it's not like I'm making a big deal out of my first time. But if it was her first time I might make a big deal out of it cos like
Awww, ShyBoy, you are desperate aren't you!
does it matter?
it's their virginity, and they should lose it however they see fit.
whether it's a one night stand on a pool table with a 48 year old guy named Bud when they're 13, or on their wedding night.
Youd do well not to mock other peoples heart-felt beliefs just because sex isnt important for you though.
yes please
anyway Question for all you people still with your V-Plates (i admire you)
Dont you just get SO horny sometimes? that you just NEED it? and if it was just there? on a plate offerd to you, would you not take it and go jack one off instead? :S
and an opinion from myself me and i.
People these days are loosing there virginity at a younger age than ever before...
yeh sure
Hurrah - I was 25 and I was glad I waited
Though, my best mate would rather die than see me stay a virgin.. He's there should I need him for anything lol..
But, saying that, I'm in no hurry to lose my virginity...
Ilora x
"Need sex! NOW!! :mad: :banghead: "
If it was offered on a plate, I think I'd turn it down - I was always hoping my first time would be in a bed
In all seriousness, I'd prefer my first time to be special, not just because I'm horny
I dont regret it at all...there was no pressure from anyone for it to happen and although it wasnt the best shag Ive ever had, it was probably the most meaningful one
Well darling, yes getting horny all the time is frustrating....try going without sex for about 8months and you may begin to see how it feels
Next part, if someone offered me sex on a plate i'd say no....i want it to be special and i wouldn't necessarily go "jack off" instead....but like if....blah you know what i mean
and bennie love you seem to put a lot of thought into your posts...i need to try that tbh.
try going for 16 years
or 18, but like i doubt any of them would go that long so like 8 months is sorta realistic unless they are a sex machine
you'll meet someone else and go out with him and then those feelings you had for your ex will disappear and you will realise that losing you virginity to your new bloke would be just as perfect.