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Is it fuck. Boy drinks a beer. Boy see girls. Boy fancies girl. Boy shouts drunken compliment at girl.
Big fucking deal :rolleyes:
If people are concerning themselves with this sort of shit they need to get themselves sorted out.
Why would you wear something 'sexy' if you didn't want to get attention from the opossite sex?
What the fuck are you talking about? Who, exactly, has been sidelined, by whom, and by what means?
He meant women older than their teens and you know that, so why persist with the bone questions?
No? So they're trying to insult you are they?
Well, Franki says "hey, I don't like it, I'm not after male attention", and you lot gang up on her telling her that she's wrong and she should just "accept the compliment" as if she's an ungrateful bitch for not liking being leered at by Trevor in his Transit.
Haway with ya, you know exactly that's what's happened.
Okay. But if the intention is good, i think you should focus up on that. That's all. Why be upset you look attractive? OK, mouthy "chavs" might not not be to your taste and their compliments may be unwanted and blunt, but all they're doing is complimenting you in their own way.
So we've told her how she feels is actually different to how she's said she feels?
Don't think so
Make a note of how many take the compliment, smile and report back later on .
I'll escape from my bird at some point later do likewise.
No it's girls too.
Of course girls are never just after sex are they?
Ok, I can see what that could be scary.
But who cares if they're only after sex? Are girls sad bitches for talking to me with the intention of only having a shag?
And she wasn't saying that either.
Chatting someone up in a club is different, for very obvious reasons. But shouting things at people in the street is as odious as groping people in bars and clubs.
No, you're right, it's not complimenting what you're wearing, it's complimenting your body.
If someone came up to you in a club...started chatting you up...then said you've got nice legs then would you be offended?
ermmm... i didn't say it was all guys. i was talking about my experiences.
re-read what i wrote.
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That, as you well know, is different.
Unless you seriously think that the girl you honk at is going to climb straight in the back of the saxo for a good old gangbang with five spotty boy racers.
My mates and I have picked up girls round town from our car so it does work.
Ah, right. So a compliment where sex really isn't on the cards is instrinsically worse than a compliment where sex may well be on the cards?
How's that?
It isn't pleasant in a nightclub either, but at least it is safer.
Neither are men - are you disgusted at that too?
What about a group of 10 ten women with 2 guys in tow?
I wouldnt like being shouted at by a bunch of girls in a car no.