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i need it real bad!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i need your love.. :(

tonight was the worst night i've ever had at work...

i only made 43 dollars in tips... (that was made in 8 and a half hours)

i didn't get home till 2 in the morning...

i got sexually harrassed numerous times...

almost every table yelled at me because their food didn't come out fast enough (and today was sweetest day so it's like one of the busiest days so the kitchen was backed up)

some asshole told me to wipe his hands for him as if he was soo much superior that i was..

and my boyfriend isn't here on sweetest day.. :(

i need all of your peoples love... :(

kinda depressing that i turn to you people for love, eh?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WTF is 'sweetest day'? A rip-off of the already farcical Valentines Day?

    Anyway, $43 isn't bad considering what some people make :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kiezo
    WTF is 'sweetest day'? A rip-off of the already farcical Valentines Day?

    Anyway, $43 isn't bad considering what some people make :razz:

    yup.. it's a rip-off....

    *sigh* 43 dollars is TERRIBLE!!!!

    but thanks for all that love you sent my way... NOT! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love and hugs xxxx

    My day was pretty fucking shit too if it makes you feel better!

    Oh well, hope tomorrow is better for you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jon_UK
    Love and hugs xxxx

    My day was pretty fucking shit too if it makes you feel better!

    Oh well, hope tomorrow is better for you.

    awe... why was your day shitty???

    i send love back to you!!!

    i also hope tomorrow is better for you...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well first of all we got beaten by Michigan (although if i remember rightly you're from michigan so i'll let that slide ;) )

    but other than that i did a couple of really stupid things today - but i been drinking sinse the game (about 12 hours now) so i think its exusable!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woah woah.. i didn't know you were in the U.S. right now..

    who's "we"???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep i'm in university of illinois for the year and the fighting illini just got their sorry arses whipped by Michigan - we're so shit!!! :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol

    well.. U of M and MSU both have amazing football teams...

    but like you said.. you're okay with mich. beating you b/c I'M from mich.!!! :)

    you're the one that looks like ben affleck right??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And more to the point Illinois have a shit team!

    Well apparantly I do but i think it was just an overly flattering photo
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that's what i say about my photos too

    i should be getting drunk like you....
    it's about 4 am now and i've drunk enough to get drunk.. but i'[m not drunk... :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How much do you normally get in tips? If I went to America, how much would people want for a tip?

    I'm a bit of a miser, I'm not used to giving out tips so I wouldn't feel comfortable going to an American restraunt and giving out money over and above what was asked. I like to spend as little as is possible.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Slog
    How much do you normally get in tips? If I went to America, how much would people want for a tip?

    I'm a bit of a miser, I'm not used to giving out tips so I wouldn't feel comfortable going to an American restraunt and giving out money over and above what was asked. I like to spend as little as is possible.

    10% if they were shitty
    15% if they were average
    20% if they were good
    more than 20% if they were amazing...

    but like.. tonight just sucked because when i had ghetto people.. they would order TONS of food like.. one table had a $150 bill and only gave me $10...
    and another table had $46 and gave me nothing...
    but they were all ghetto.. and you don't really expect them to pay.. i guess you can say they're our version of your "chavs"

    and like the guys that would hit on me or sexually harrass me would give me nothing b/c i wouldn't give them my number or anything like that...

    eventually my manager had to kick people out for me b/c they were so disrespectful to me...

    my total sales tonight was 517... and i only made 43.. like that's less than 10% and i should be getting at least 15%.. ya' know???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah thats shit! I suppose you kind of have to except that those kind of nights are gonna happen but it still must be a right bastard - i went to a gig tonight which was fucking great but also got screwed over by a friend which was pretty shite.

    Still not as bad as you're night, so i suppose i'm lucky - i gotta go to bed now, 3:21 in the morning my time, take care all x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You should be getting 15% should you?

    Well there's your problem straight away.

    Tips are a privilege not a right.

    Sounds like you got paid for the service you offered.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077
    but like.. tonight just sucked because when i had ghetto people.. they would order TONS of food like.. one table had a $150 bill and only gave me $10...
    and another table had $46 and gave me nothing...
    but they were all ghetto.. and you don't really expect them to pay.. i guess you can say they're our version of your "chavs"

    and like the guys that would hit on me or sexually harrass me would give me nothing b/c i wouldn't give them my number or anything like that...

    my total sales tonight was 517... and i only made 43.. like that's less than 10% and i should be getting at least 15%.. ya' know??? [/B]

    You sound greedy to me. If I get tipped the equivalent of $10 I am very happy. Normally I'm tipped nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PussyKatty
    You sound greedy to me. If I get tipped the equivalent of $10 I am very happy. Normally I'm tipped nothing.

    Exactly.

    Although in America the serving staff think that they are owed tips by right, probably because the wages are so bobbins.

    Still, you get paid for the service you offer. And you sound like you offered a shit one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Exactly.

    Although in America the serving staff think that they are owed tips by right, probably because the wages are so bobbins.

    Still, you get paid for the service you offer. And you sound like you offered a shit one.

    no... because i know when i did a shitty job...

    people get pissed off because their fucking food doesn't come out fast enough...

    im not the fucking cook.. i don't make the fucking food

    but thanks for passing judgement on me and calling me greedy and assuming that i'm shitty at my job without knowing me or how hard i actually DO work
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do not understand why you'd give 10% to someone who was wank. I give 10% to alright people. Wank people get nothing, because they didn't deserve anything. I'm not saying you didn't deserve anything, but why do you think you are owed something?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by the doc horatio
    I do not understand why you'd give 10% to someone who was wank. I give 10% to alright people. Wank people get nothing, because they didn't deserve anything. I'm not saying you didn't deserve anything, but why do you think you are owed something?

    because i serve you, literally...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the doc horatio

    You're so cool
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077
    because i serve you, literally...

    Don't you get wages?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When prices are already high I tip nothing.

    The other week I ordered a pizza and it came to £8.20 and the delivery guy gave me one of those "Where's my tip" looks. I just shut the door on him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077
    because i serve you, literally...

    Yes. And that's what is in your job description. You get wages don't you. Well. What else do you want? People tip out of courtesy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by the doc horatio
    Don't you get wages?

    we get $2.65 an hour...

    that's like what.... 1.50 euro's an hour?? i dunno how it works.. but your money is stronger than hours so i just picked a random number

    so the government here says that servers can make less than minimum wage, but no less than 2.65, because tips make up for it..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077
    because i serve you, literally...

    Bugger me, if I knew about your attitude before you were my waitress, you'd get nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jazza Bing
    Yes. And that's what is in your job description. You get wages don't you. Well. What else do you want? People tip out of courtesy.

    I think generally though that the situation in the US is that if you don't tip then you're considered a bit stingey.

    Though yes, in my opinion you get a tip if you deserve one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fiend_85
    Bugger me, if I knew about your attitude before you were my waitress, you'd get nothing.

    newsflash... in america.. that's every waitress's attitude...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel121077
    newsflash... in america.. that's every waitress's attitude...

    Yeah, some of them have the brains to keep quiet about it though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if i were in the UK or any where else in europe i would still tip 20% even though they get wages...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fiend_85
    Yeah, some of them have the brains to keep quiet about it though.

    Not really. If tips are considered part of the wages then I'm not suprised that people will moan if they don't get them.
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