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My hubby had trust issues with me. When we met he never trusted me because his (now) ex wife took a fella to their house, whilst he was upstairs in bed, he caught them on the settee in the living room.
It was hard in the beginning because he thought we were all the same.
He doesent have that problem no more, so you can overcome that.
I'm not hugely better, but it's small steps. You have to make them, because people won't do it for you, people can't do it for you, and people will get frustrated if you don't do it.
Doctor. Go.
Thanks, Becky. I know all women aren't the same, and I try to avoid getting into that trap. I've got a lot of personal issues I'm trying to work through.
A week is nothing. When I was referred to the mental health unit in Newcastle it was three months, after I'd have my referral sessions they said it would be 18 months before therapy. they rang around and pushed me in in Durham because I was so priority, but it takes time. A week is nothing.
The next step is down to you. People will help, but they can't do it for you.
Too right it is. But it's hard to know what to do. I'm told I should volunteer for something. There's a side of me that wants to work, there's a side that wants to go back to education. I want to do something about it, I really do.
:eek: Woah! I can't believe you remembered me!!
Stargalaxy, this is absolutely true. My life is not perfect, far from it, and I'm one of the people who doesn't talk about it much, but more than anything that's to avoid boring everyone to death!
But while we're here, Mr Miffy is quite ill and we don't know if he's going to get better, as well as having other problems that we KNOW are not going to get better (he will end up in a wheelchair), my daughter won't even speak to me and I have a psycho ex husband who is intent on dragging me through the courts at every opportunity and telling the most incredible lies about me to anyone who will listen.
Just remember when you see other people and you get jealous... you're not seeing the whole story. You never know what's really going on in peoples' lives.
exactly.
you can have all the pills and therapy in the world, but nothing will change until you get off your arse and change it.
i learned that the hard way.
KAFFRIN: Always interesting to hear from you.
GROOVAYBABY: I want to get better! Why does no one believe me when I say that? I believe it!
OK. I will do precisely that.
Cheers Guys; Your cheques should reach yas by the end of the week
Excuse m'moi - Was first time I seen this thread and was flattered. Now quit your whinging lad.
Samantha, you're upsetting me. :rolleyes:
shut up?
Isn't that exactly what this thread was originally all about? To feed people's egos?
What's your point?!
Aye.. :yes: aint it Greeaat!!! haha
Yes, it was about feeding MY ego!
:rolleyes:
Well life doesn't revolve round you lad! This is a PUBLIC board. You ask people a question. Don't expect them to fall to your knees just cause you made the thread.
Why did I sense from day one that me and you wouldn't get along?
I don't know; please do tell though.
Never mind. I'm sorry, Samantha, I'm not in a good mood today. Had a bad weekend. Sorry if I'm taking it out on you.
hoi Jake0