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Well was with him for him for about 2 weeks before realising the error of my ways. Neither of us ever came through penetration purely cos we sort of realised after about 10 seconds it was the wrong thing for us. So if you class penetration of any length as sex then ok I had sex with him. But I don't count it fully as sex so he's a half.
Yea it is, but if you want to have a half you can.
im not sure i can remember all of them
Stuart,
Robin,
Simon,
Neil and Phil (I let them give me oral sex, but i didnt do anything to them - does that count?)
Dub,
Ben,
Jon (now my husband)
Oh my god, theres loads i cant remember their names, i was such a slapper. one of them was a lovely irish bloke with dreadlocks whose birthday was the same day as mine, and i went out with him for a few weeks but i cant remember his name for the life of me. Another was a DJ who lived in near me at my old house, and i didnt even fancy him and the sex was shit, so we only did it once. Cant remember his name either.
There was definitely another two, as ive counted them all up before, but I cant remember them at all. Its been a long time though, Ive not slept with anyone except jon for the last 7 years.
*sigh*
Just that you always seem to insinuate that your total is quite high.
Very true- in fact, those who talk about it most generally do it the least. As a general rule anyway:)
Simon: Long term partner
Random guy:
Gary: Scouser builder
Dave: Work colleague - fuck buddy
C: Current partner. Mmmmmm.
jess - ex
nicky casual shag
kay ex
katie ex
kisrty ex
martine holiday fling
gemma ex
1) Too young and was like shagging a corpse (another of her ex's said same thing)
2)On Rebound and was just a casual thing and really wasnt very fulfilling or satisfying
3)Best ever by miles, so much more than sex. In love this time I suppose.
1st - Jon, my best friend, in a one night stand kinda way.
2nd - James, my current boyfriend of nearly a year.
And to tell you the truth seeing everyone elses 'endless' lists of lovers, conquests, mistakes (lol) etc.....it does not make me the slightest bit jealous!
really really really wish my current bf was my only shag, would be really sweet for him to be the guy i lost my virginity to! life would have been so much simpler too.
(i dont really want to announce to the nation how many ive slept with, think its kinda personal!)
thats terrible!!!!!
you cant give them marks out of 10 :shocking:
Me too, me too...It depresses me.
1 daryl ... one night stand. big regrets, lost virginity to him, ended up getting MAP
2 finlay. serious b/f. still sex him every so often as fuck buddies. best friend
3 declan ... one night stand. twas very nice and good fun
Its been a while since I could accurately answer that one but around 70ish. But in my defence I am 28 and have been single most of my life so that averages a little over 4 a year since I lost my virginity. Sometimes, if those 4 are just one night stands that accounts for very little sex within the course of a year.