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Dont like single life

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I’ve been feeling alone. I’ve been on and off dating apps for maybe a year, joining just to see what they’re like and then deleting them. It’s not something that’s come out of nowhere. I always think about relationships and imagine or daydream about being with someone, but I don’t know how I’m going to meet someone. I don’t know if dating apps are it. I feel like someone that good is probably going to be taken by someone way better than me. The competition scares me. There’s all competition and all that when dating someone, and when I did get someone, the fear of heartbreak, which I’ve seen in people, can hit hard. That’s if I even get dates and one. Also on dating apps, a lot of the time I don’t feel it when it’s just swiping. I see women who I maybe like but can’t date. I’d like to find someone natural, like not initially intended.

I want to find someone who likes me for who I am. Someone shorter than me ideally, non-judgemental, supportive, with a sense of humour, probably 20 to 21 plus. I just don’t like single life. I have friends but I think I want someone a bit more. I’ve never had a relationship or anything. In general, I don’t feel good enough for anyone, and I worry about being a shorter guy.
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