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I'm sorry to hear that the helplines you reached out to were useless. I can say from experience it's frustrating to reach out during a time where you already feel vulnerable to only feel either worse or neutral afterwards. Would you feel comfortable in sharing why you felt as though the helplines you reached out to were useless?
Also here's a website where you can type in your own information and find things local to you. If you feel up to it, it might be helpful to have a look around and see if there's anything that might sound useful to you
Reaching out for support repeatedly takes a lot of energy and strength, you're doing a solid job
You would think that people who work on a helpline, especially that one, would understand that people are reaching out because they've experienced something traumatic. It sounds really unpleasant that the person on the other end wasn't friendly and seemed quite moody with you. Your feelings here are completely valid and I can understand why you found it useless. I just really wish this wasn't the case for you
I also wanted to check if you'd heard back from that woman about giving evidence? I know you've unfortunately been waiting a while and you were feeling a bit uncertain about what to do. It sounds like there's so much on your mind at the minute Eylah and it's a lot for one person to hold in their head. How are you feeling today about it? Giving evidence sounds like a really tricky decision to make that comes with all kinds of emotions. Only you can make that choice
thankyou i never used any other helpline bc i haven’t found any that are in the uk. no i havent heard from her but tbh i know its my choice whether to go ahead with the long investigation but idk if i can or not bc im not strong enough. Im not feeling gd i relapsed with sh im just a mess i appreciate you replying to me but im sry for not responding sooner ❤️
In terms of your sh are you managing to care for yourself afterwards? I.e applying antiseptic wipes or plasters to the area? Are you able to try and do something nice for yourself to distract yourself such as put on a film or have a nice bath?
I'll also attach some useful links to some apps that help with sh and ways of managing urges and your emotions
Or https://calmharm.stem4.org.uk/
You have shown so much courage in keeping sharing with us about how you are really feeling and what you are experiencing, despite not feeling supported or heard in other spaces. Is there anything which may help at the moment?