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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,522 Skive's The Limit
    Veryy suicidal 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    The hug thread is there if you need it shaunie. :)
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Oh @Shaunie , i'm so sorry :( Please reach out if you need help. We really really care about you <3
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,522 Skive's The Limit
    I’m worried about my dad. Think He’s depressed from losing his money by scammer. and been in his room all day. Scared he’s done something bad. But yeah
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    What's Everyones plans the rest of the week?
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Take care of yourself Shaunie <3

    I know its silly of me but my anxiety is showing and i don't know if i will be sleeping tonight lol

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @Shaunie please do reach out for support <3 sending big hugs 

    @GreenTea treating yourself sounds like a lovely idea!!! I haven't done online shopping for ages aha.
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    The bank not been able to help @Shaunie ? :/ It really stinks that he was scammed. Seriously, i wish people were just honest and kind with each other. Maybe you could go talk with him or slide a wee note under his door if he's not up to talking, sure it'll make him smile <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Laine said:
    Take care of yourself Shaunie <3

    I know its silly of me but my anxiety is showing and i don't know if i will be sleeping tonight lol


    I'll be around tonight lovely. Let's chat random shit on this thread and have a good time 💕 doing anything nice any time soon?
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited July 2020
    @Shaunie can we use trigger warnings if talking suicide please.
    Sorry just a bit sensitive around that topic at the moment because I'm really struggling too
    Hug thread is there if you need it 

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,522 Skive's The Limit
    edited July 2020
    Liam said:
    The bank not been able to help @Shaunie ? :/ It really stinks that he was scammed. Seriously, i wish people were just honest and kind with each other. Maybe you could go talk with him or slide a wee note under his door if he's not up to talking, sure it'll make him smile <3
    They said they might be able to get his money back for him. But yeah he was blaming himself
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    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie @Laine Sending you both big ol hugs. Use your imagination and you'll be able to feel them :lol:<3 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    @independent_ yh there's a pair of shoes I want but cost over £100 so we shall see 😂
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @GreenTea not got much planned, im getting my hair cut tomorrow finally it seems like such a small thing but I actually can't wait!!!! I'm really nervous about what it will be like at the salon in terms of Covid restrictions though but hopefully it's ok.

    @Laine it's not silly at all sending big hugs <3
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    What's Everyones plans the rest of the week?
    Literally just working 😂 you got anything planned 
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Ahh good luck @independent_ it's ok to be nervous! You'll feel so good walking out of there with a fresh trim!
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Dandelion said:
    GreenTea said:
    What's Everyones plans the rest of the week?
    Literally just working 😂 you got anything planned 


    Hope work goes ok!!

    I have a date tomorrow and seeing a friend for coffee maybe.
    And got an online shopping spree to do. Haven't treated myself in so long
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Thanks all <3 i'm going to get animal crossing going and got netflix on to take my mind off it :)

    I usually feel safe at night so its a weird feeling for me not a common anxiety haha

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Shaunie said:
    They said they might be able to get his money back for him. But yeah he was blaming himself and hurting himself in front of me yesterday 
    I hope that they can @Shaunie ... i'm so sorry for you both. It's really awful :( Maybe you could go and chat with him? tell him you're worried about him. I guess you don't even have to bring that up at all if you didn't want to, just remind him that he's loved and/or offer a hug. It's not his fault <3
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @GreenTea thanks <3 it soooo needs it, I don't like having long hair anymore and I'm thinking it's way too long now and it's just at my shoulders aha! So getting quite a bit off. I wonder if I'll have to wear a mask. Probably. Idk how my salon is doing things 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    Dandelion said:
    GreenTea said:
    What's Everyones plans the rest of the week?
    Literally just working 😂 you got anything planned 


    Hope work goes ok!!

    I have a date tomorrow and seeing a friend for coffee maybe.
    And got an online shopping spree to do. Haven't treated myself in so long
    Ooh that’s sounds fun, enjoy 
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,522 Skive's The Limit
    I knocked on his door. Won’t even answer. But he moved so that’s something. Going to make a thread about scammers just to remind people and what to do with types of phone calls
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    independent_ said:
    @GreenTea thanks <3 it soooo needs it, I don't like having long hair anymore and I'm thinking it's way too long now and it's just at my shoulders aha! So getting quite a bit off. I wonder if I'll have to wear a mask. Probably. Idk how my salon is doing things 


    Each salon is different. Could always ring before you appointment and let them know you are nervous and what the covid protocol is. Then you can feel prepared when entering.

    @Dandelion
    Thank you! Trying to keep busy tbh
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @Laine I hope you feel better soon <3 nighttime I find is often the worst time. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Good idea Shaunie. If you wanted to you could slide a note under his door. He might not be up for a chat right now but the note will just let him know that he's on your mind and that's real sweet. You're so kind for looking out for others :) 
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    @independent_ at the barbers i was told to wear a mask but then i had to take it off for the skin fade so was basically pointless :lol: 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix

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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @GreenTea ah that's a good idea thank you might well do that. I just don't really like when things change so this whole thing's been pretty hard in that respect aha. 

    Aww, hope the date goes well tomorrow !! <3
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,647 Legendary Poster
    @Liam aha oh wow I wonder how it'll work when they're washing hair, like the mask might get wet lol, will have to wait and see. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    You'll be fine!
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