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The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Health & Wellbeing
Hi guys, here is my revised version of this thread! The other one was a quick lazy post to put a thread here.

This thread is for posting things which may not belong or be appropriate for the ranty thread in Anything Goes. This means that some of the posts in here have the potential to be triggering for some users and you should be aware that some of the content may be uncomfortable reading for some of you.

A few quick notes:
  • This isn't a replacement for making your own threads. Please don't feel like you can't do that :). This is more for (quoting the lovely Arctic Roll) "the times where people don't want advice, they just want somebody to know". If you are very worried, please please please make a thread of your own, where people would be more likely to give you personal advice etc.
  • No post is too insignificant, no post is too large. Don't feel uncomfortable posting here because you aren't sure if it belongs. If you need a hug, you can post in the thread. For whatever reason. The reason it is in health is because it was felt that people needed a place to vent or post potentially triggering content somewhere where others weren't going to feel uncomfortable reading it.
  • If you find the thread helpful, please let us know. It's always nice to feel appreciated :)
  • No photos, please. Users who post images of their self-injury or similar will have their posts reported.
  • Thank you for reading. I hope this thread can be helpful for some of you. :heart:

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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    edited May 2018
    is it just me or is this thread broken? cant seem to see any of the replys.... (or do we have to start it again?)  :s 
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    is it just me or is this thread broken? cant seem to see any of the replys.... (or do we have to start it again?)  :s 
    This is something that @Mike would clarify, but don't worry as it's probs for a good reason. :)
    I'm driven by self doubt.
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  • MikeMike Posts: 1,707 Staff Moderator
    Hey both - @BubblesGoesBoo & @Floxy

    This is actually something @Aife and I noticed this morning, too! We're not sure what's happened - it certainly wasn't planned. We're talking to our tech team about it and will let everyone know when we have more info. There's a chance it may have gotten lost somewhere when we migrated.

    For now, feel free to keep using this thread. :smile:

    just because you're not doing something perfectly, doesn't mean you're not doing it
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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    So my dad has to go back to the hospital in Birmingham  :'(  he has an infection and theyre worried it could turn into sepsis.
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    ShaunieTheAprilFoolPianoGal0301littlegemz
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    So my dad has to go back to the hospital in Birmingham  :'(  he has an infection and theyre worried it could turn into sepsis.
    They'll look after your dad all right. The hospital staff will put him on strong intravenous antibiotics and those antibiotics are very effective. We'll be thinking of you tonight @BubblesGoesBoo

    I'm driven by self doubt.
    TheAprilFoolPianoGal0301
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    edited June 2018
    Im so sad. :worried:
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    BubblesGoesBooTheAprilFoollittlegemz
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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    @Shaunie What's up?  <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    Saw my doctor today for another blood sugar test. I have one every month to check sugars because she thinks I could be diabetic type 1. Despite not eating sugary foods and being careful with my eating, I don't feel wonderful. Sugar content, salt intake and fats all have to be checked on cartons or jars as I don't want my mmols racing. Been so tired lately and the lady who was going to work for me didn't turn up. Not helping either is the heat even though it's cloudy today. I feel pretty down, so hugs would be most welcome.
    I'm driven by self doubt.
    TheAprilFoollittlegemz
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    Oh- too late to add a link.

    Continuing from my want of hugs, this could be a useful link for infomation on teen diabetes. https://www.diabetes.org.uk/guide-to-diabetes/teens 

    I'm anxiously awaiting results from my latest blood test. :/



    I'm driven by self doubt.
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    @Shaunie What's up?  <3
    Just suicidal & stressed about an appiontment and ive had bad back pain for ages so feel like i may be dying. Thank you for asking!. Hope youre okay!
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    Shaunie said:
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    @Shaunie What's up?  <3
    Just suicidal & stressed about an appiontment and ive had bad back pain for ages so feel like i may be dying. Thank you for asking!. Hope youre okay!
    i hope things start looking up soon, and good luck with your appointment! :) im not doing so great but getting there, thanks  <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    TheAprilFool
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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    been sent home from work sick  :'(
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    [Deleted User]TheAprilFool
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    been sent home from work sick  :'(
    It's probably for the best so rest up! HUGS
    I'm driven by self doubt.
    TheAprilFool
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    ShaunieTheAprilFool
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    Dreadful thunderstorms all night and continuing into today. Sounds like a war zone! Menorca is badly affected right now.

    So glad I put up lightning conductors. And I'm so grateful that aunty and her partner came last night to stay and help us out.
    I'm driven by self doubt.
    ShaunieTheAprilFool
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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,519 Mega Poster
    Have therapy today and i'm dreading it, hugs much appreciated! 
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    [Deleted User]ShaunieTheAprilFool
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0 Noob
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    Have therapy today and i'm dreading it, hugs much appreciated! 
    Hugs lovingly given. Take things slowly, chill later. x
    I'm driven by self doubt.
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Cant sleep. Too many suicide thoughts. Im so saddd & alone. I wanna die😭😭😭
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Everyone seems to be at uni my age and im just thinking about dying all the time. Have no future😭😭😭😭😭 and wasting my life and youth while everyones out. And quite jelous.  but everytime leae my house just feel like dying there and then

    Im such a fuck up someone shot me pleaseeee.?????? This life is shit.😭😭😭😭
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    edited June 2018
    Know your job is shit when you keep making a mental list of horrible things you would rather be doing. Like id rather have food poinsioning instead then go to work. How much i hate it.  But my bus is here soon😭😭
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    AifeTheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Lol no one cares. Wannnaa diee
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Im seeking attention. 
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFoollittlegemz
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    I feel ignored
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    edited June 2018
    If i was sowmone else i wouldntwanna hug me either. Aint my biggest fan either
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Spam block lol
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Now im gunna end uo forcing someone to give me attention. Oh dear. Im so fucked up. I hate myself. Im so embarrasssing. Something so wrong in my head
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    TheAprilFool
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  • AifeAife LondonPosts: 2,028 Staff Moderator
    Sending you hugs @Shaunie <3 We're here if you want to talk about anything :) 
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
    littlegemz
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Sorry:/:(
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    AifeTheAprilFool
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  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 6,169 The Mix Elder
    Going to skegness soon. Think id rather die. Dont wanna leave my bed & Inevitable Im going to get travel sickness😭
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    RileyTheAprilFool
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