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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    I just want to go back to sleep and sleep all day but my sister is shouting at me
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2021
    TW


    Had a dream that my dad came up to me in my room and said “who’s is this” then cornered me and acted like he was going to hurt me. And I couldnt speak to shout to my sister
    . He was like that when I was very young had a random turn and was wanting to hurt people cause he was mentally ill


    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey @Shaunie that sounds like a really scary dream , big hugs here if you need anything  <3 
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    ZenZen Posts: 1,989 Extreme Poster
    edited January 2021
    @Shaunie Sending hugs, that sounds awful <3 I'm wondering if you could possible spoiler that perhaps with a trigger warning please? <3 No hard feelings or anything, it's just it might trigger some folk :) 

    How you feeling now? 
    Alis propriis volat 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Stressed. Really really stressed
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    Writing today off. Just feel really rubbish and I've said some stuff I really regret. Never mind. I'll be ok. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Big hugs @independent_ we’re here if you ever need anything . Always happy to listen  <3
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    Past UserPast User Definition of a mental mess and a certified lost cause :) EnglandPosts: 0 Just got here
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    Trying really hard not to self harm. Doing the pros and cons in my head 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    I feel so done
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey @Shaunie you’re doing amazing, we all care about you. Here if you ever need anything. Big hugs 
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    edited January 2021
    Hey @Laine Big hugs, we all make mistakes I promise you , you’re only human. I don’t know a lot of things but one thing I do know is that we are so darn lucky to have you here, you’ve helped so many of us.

     I know on my worst days I just wanted to kept away from everyone felt like I deserved to be alone forever. But I know that’s not true. Because I do good as well as bad. I’m only human. We’re always here if you ever need anything, always happy to listen. Sorry if this sounds patronising, it’s just we all care about you So much Laine nothing will change that  <3
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    My sister sent me this
    https://youtu.be/Vd_Lcub_OxA
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,148 Part of The Furniture
    I just weighed myself , no more eating crap it was disgusting 😫
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    Shaunie said:
    My sister sent me this
    https://youtu.be/Vd_Lcub_OxA
    I asked someone this morning what they do when they're feeling in a rut. This video was great, thanks for sharing! What did you think of it, @Shaunie ?



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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,514 Skive's The Limit
    Liam said:
    Shaunie said:
    My sister sent me this
    https://youtu.be/Vd_Lcub_OxA
    I asked someone this morning what they do when they're feeling in a rut. This video was great, thanks for sharing! What did you think of it, @Shaunie ?



    Ah that’sa coincidence and it said about being lazy when I’m not soo I stopped watching it
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie Yeah i raised an eyebrow when he said that. Being in a rut with a lack of motivation isn't being lazy but he did share some alright tips! Thanks for sharing either way :)
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    😓
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,148 Part of The Furniture
    Sat and watched a resident take there last breathe at work last night and I’m heartbroken . I’ve barley slept snd just don’t know what to do with myself 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    DurhamjaideDurhamjaide Posts: 1,225 Wise Owl
    Millie2787 said:
    Sat and watched a resident take there last breathe at work last night and I’m heartbroken . I’ve barley slept snd just don’t know what to do with myself 
    Aw bless you 

    Yesterday I got told that I was making excuses by my maths teacher and  I get scared in case I get into trouble and that's what happened yesterday and I'm also worried that if I don't hand in homework that I will get into trouble because she also said that she expects the same amount of work from me as the other students.
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Just got my jab and my arm aches already 🙃😂
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Took a couple days away to sort myself out as really struggling and was becoming very easily upset. 
    Feeling better today. Still not great but feeling a bit more of a positive attitude
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    @GreenTea Glad to hear you're feeling a wee bit more positive. We're here for you :)
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Big hugs @Millie2787 I’m really sorry to hear that. We’re here if you ever need anything  <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Took nap, clearly with my arm bent in an awkward position but fuck me my arm is hurting 
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    Anch0r33Anch0r33 Posts: 1,201 Wise Owl
    Well my tyre is gonna be a lot more expensive than first thought. After hitting the pothole (doing under the speed limit) the tyre burst, but not only that, the alloy wheel has dented so it can't be put back on. 

    We're supposed to be seeing my uncles flat tomorrow, need to go to my old school on Monday and view another property there too. 


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