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Slagged off

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    His loss, not yours. she doesnt sound like a catch either, leave them to it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    His loss, not yours. she doesnt sound like a catch either, leave them to it

    She isn't! Hes only saying nice things as hed seen her punch crap out of me. I just think she's quite desperate as he's cheated on her a few times she just keeps taking him bk he don't even work
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    She isn't! Hes only saying nice things as hed seen her punch crap out of me. I just think she's quite desperate as he's cheated on her a few times she just keeps taking him bk he don't even work

    So what? It's not your problem
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    Ok, look at this way... he hasn't won because he hasn't won you.

    Except he has....he's living rent free inside her head
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Neddy wrote: »
    Except he has....he's living rent free inside her head

    Lol guess that's true and so what?! Why didn't he want mr
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im loosing the will...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    im loosing the will...

    Sorry :( I just liked the guy and can't believe he's been Slaggin me off and saying such vile stuff /:( my confidence isn't the best
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Sorry :( I just liked the guy and can't believe he's been Slaggin me off and saying such vile stuff /:( my confidence isn't the best

    Is it really that hard to believe? He's not exactly going to stick up for you if he wants to keep his gf is he? Just drop it and move on. You're the one ruining your confidence by mulling over it. Shit happens, people say mean stuff, that's life. Now move on
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Sorry :( I just liked the guy and can't believe he's been Slaggin me off and saying such vile stuff /:( my confidence isn't the best

    Then as many have already pointed out why don't you worry about addressing your confidence/self-esteem issues instead.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girl_afraid wrote: »
    Then as many have already pointed out why don't you worry about addressing your confidence/self-esteem issues instead.

    Yep but this hasn't exactly helped my confidence! To think why not me but I guess it's cause I can't b used as much
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Yep but this hasn't exactly helped my confidence! To think why not me but I guess it's cause I can't b used as much

    Stop using this experience as an excuse and go do something about your confidence issues then. Geez.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Yep but this hasn't exactly helped my confidence! To think why not me but I guess it's cause I can't b used as much

    How has me pointing out that you need to address your low self-esteem/confidence issues not helped? What more do you want me do or say?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girl_afraid wrote: »
    How has me pointing out that you need to address your low self-esteem/confidence issues not helped? What more do you want me do or say?

    Not what I meant just that this exp hasn't helped!! I just never have come across someone so nasty and find it hard to believe she's taken him bk after everything
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Not what I meant just that this exp hasn't helped!! I just never have come across someone so nasty and find it hard to believe she's taken him bk after everything

    Then be pro-active and do something about your issues, and stop obsessing over things you can't change.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girl_afraid wrote: »
    Then be pro-active and do something about your issues, and stop obsessing over things you can't change.

    Im just fed up of him getting away with treating people like this all the time
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Im just fed up of him getting away with treating people like this all the time

    So, what is it exactly that you want from this situation? Revenge? Because to be honest, right now as a vegetarian I'm just hoping that he doesn't own a rabbit or any small un-feral like creature which could be used in some slap-dash culinary experience....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We really don't understand what you're trying to achieve here. The last few threads on the same issue have just gone around in the exact same circles yet again and people are getting fed up. You keep saying it hasn't helped your confidence - so do something about it then and leave that guy and his gf alone. What is it about that that is so hard to understand?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    We really don't understand what you're trying to achieve here. The last few threads on the same issue have just gone around in the exact same circles yet again and people are getting fed up. You keep saying it hasn't helped your confidence - so do something about it then and leave that guy and his gf alone. What is it about that that is so hard to understand?

    Well it wasn't just me he was part of it too
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Well it wasn't just me he was part of it too

    Yes - and?
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    Annaarrr!!Annaarrr!! Posts: 876 Part of The Mix Family
    Seeking revenge is sinking to his level. You sound like a broken fucking record just take everyones advice and let it go and sort your own shit out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Annaarrr!! wrote: »
    Seeking revenge is sinking to his level. You sound like a broken fucking record just take everyones advice and let it go and sort your own shit out.

    I saw him Friday in bus station we locked eyes and as soon as I got near he looked away
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    I saw him Friday in bus station we locked eyes and as soon as I got near he looked away

    I'm not sure what you are trying to achieve by posting this? We get that its over between you and that you dont seem to be able to get over it. So what if you saw him and he looked away, it doesnt change the fact that he doesnt seem to be a very nice person from what you have told us.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    G-Raffe wrote: »
    I'm not sure what you are trying to achieve by posting this? We get that its over between you and that you dont seem to be able to get over it. So what if you saw him and he looked away, it doesnt change the fact that he doesnt seem to be a very nice person from what you have told us.

    Just I was offended he couldn't look me in eye
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why would he - he's the one in control - looking you in the eye is doing what you want.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Carriage Return wrote: »
    why would he - he's the one in control - looking you in the eye is doing what you want.

    Eh don't get u
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    Annaarrr!!Annaarrr!! Posts: 876 Part of The Mix Family
    He didn't look you in the eye because he probably didn't want to talk to you. I don't even understand why you're dragging all of this up again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jacobs_gal wrote: »
    Eh don't get u

    By initiating that contact with you, then waiting until you got close, and then snubbing you he yet again demonstrated he is the one in control, and you fell for it. He'll probably have jerked off a bit thinking about how he can jerk your string any time he likes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Carriage Return wrote: »
    By initiating that contact with you, then waiting until you got close, and then snubbing you he yet again demonstrated he is the one in control, and you fell for it. He'll probably have jerked off a bit thinking about how he can jerk your string any time he likes.

    So wasn't the case of him feeling ashamed
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably not. Even if it was, what does that get you? Nothing. You really need to move on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fiend_85 wrote: »
    Probably not. Even if it was, what does that get you? Nothing. You really need to move on.

    dont know just want him to face me and not be a wimp he looked at me for ages and yet as soon as im standing distantce he turns
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