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Long version. There is nothing you can do to stop him saying whatever he likes about you, so give up worrying about it and live your life.
As for "being punched in the face", you should have gone to the police about it at the time if you wanted that resolving. It's too late now, so there's no point dwelling on it.
There isn't anything else we can add to this discussion.
Yep it's all right! I want to go up to him day hi twat but what's the point!
Even if you did say go and something to him it still wouldn't change any of what's happened. And even if it served a purpose short-term and made you feel better briefly, it still won't resolve any long-term self-esteem issues which you quite clearly have.
Well this hasnt helped my issues lol
Well to be honest jacobs_gal you're not helping yourself.
So stop having anything to do with him! We've been saying that for months
You're not the only person this has happened to. Thousands of people around the world and I bet every person on this board has been in the situation with a horrible ex.
Mine is still swanning about like he owns the place, new girlfriend, baby on the way, thinks he's all that, probably said some shit about me, and im still single. But i dont care what he says or does because i know he's not worth the crap on my shoe. I'd rather be the way i am without than get caught up in a load of drama. Yea i could go to him and tell him what i want and cause a load of shit, but frankly, ive got better things to do with my time.
Girl_afraid is right, you need to forget him, work on your own self-esteem issues and only then will you be able to realise how pointless this all is
that's horrible! and reminded me of what my first ever boyfriend (who I thought I was the love of my life) did to me - he broke up with me for another girl and wrote a blog post on his MySpace page detailing how he cheated on me! exact details and everything! I was heartbroken. maybe we should all share our tales of woe to make Jacobs gal feel better although I'm sure it won't help. been around for years, in various forms
It was, what hurt even more was that it was their most popular song for ages and was getting loads of praise. And I was just thinking - erm guys, it's clearly about me, have you no tact? I'm fairly sure he left me for the girl he's now with too. Though they didn't make it official for a year after we split but I had my suspicions. But it did me a favour in the end because I was struggling to get over him, because until then he'd been the perfect boyfriend for years and we'd been good friends for years before that. I never confronted him about it because I was determined to be the bigger person and walk away with some dignity. Which is what jacobs gal should do.
It does seem to b the way! But why would u want a guy who steals off , lies cheats on u and hits u I just didn't think he'd b taken bk so soon and to be slagged off to such a degree that people have said why bother if he's got what he wants
That's the thing why carry on Slaggin me off? And it wasn't just one mishap it's been on off for a year and he's been sleeping with his ex gf too
It's because he's hurt me treated me like shit and got away Scott free
What do you expect to happen? It's not like there's karma fairies going around waving their wands to punish every single bad deed. People are cunts and will do hurtful things and sometimes get away with it. That's life.
The only person who cares is you. There's your problem right there.
You are right just he's said stuff like how I can't find anyone, slagged off way I look despite him in past has said how beautiful I am... When u have low confidence if don't help
Believe me i know, but you know the best way to feel better about yourself? Remove all that bad stuff from your life. Delete his number, delete his/her facebook, dont even think of them again and surround yourself with people who care about you. Focus on the good things, your friends and family, rather than the bad stuff
Dne all that
Lol well considering he constantly said how beautiful I am yes maybe just I don't think he sees it that way as he can carry on using this woman