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If one subscribes to the theory of natural selection, then the male behaviour of stopping everything and falling asleep (preferably pinning the partner in place) gives the best chance of allowing the ejaculate to impregnate. Yes, it can be overcome, but hormonal responses are quite powerful, and remembering you have to work to overcome it can be hard.
I ignore the man having an orgasm bit- that's his problem...
That's a bit selfish and unnatural...
So please run us through what the porn scene would involve, from start to finish...
no, we do our thing together. he comes first, then he makes me come.
Im still a real woman
With regards male vs female 'satisfaction', I find it harder to achieve orgasm than my wife does. I always have done, and not just with penetration. So I don't agree that women are 'harder to satisfy' than men.
mutual pleasure? *head explodes*
i know. We do some crazy shit eh?
ETA: you should film that shit and sell it as your own brand of porno.
So you're promoting the idea that porn should conclude with the female climax, suggesting that her orgasm and (potential) ejaculation prompt the end of sexual activity for that occasion. And also implicit within this pattern is the ideology that it is a woman's sexual desires that need to be fulfilled within a hetero physical relationship.
Sounds strangely familiar?
But surely that would be achieved by delayed gratification and simultaneous climax?
Which is a hard thing to accomplish if one partner typically takes longer. So she might as well just do it normally and have her climax last.
In an ideal world. In real life, I don't think simultaneous climax is going to happen every time for every couple.
Similtaneous climix isn't that hard to achieve if you know each other well and you've got time on your hands. Plus, we're talking about porn - surely that would be the ideal way for porn to be non-sexist...?
Some women are actually like that, very noisy all the way through.
Only when they are faking it :yes:
Have all the women in your life been noisy lovers :chin:
Women don't make noise when having sex unless they are faking it? Maybe in your bedroom, sweatheart :thumb:
Read the sentence you've just quoted, oh clever one - the answer lies therein.
Thats not what i said at all
Then what are you saying, exactly?
You didn't offend me, don't flatter yourself.
*hug*
haha
as long as we both come, it doesnt matter who comes first. I do sometimes, but usually we prefer it that i do last so that im fully into it the whole way through
It's very, very difficult to tell when I've orgasmed during sex because I am pretty vocal. Especially during the kind of sex that would make me cum.
I sometimes wonder whether some of these housewives have ever had a decent shag