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Breastfeeding, an act of paedophilia?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'd never have thought it but yes.... my wife is a paedophile... Why? because some sick, twisted campaign says so...

Taken from a particular website, but this has been spread around the internet quite a bit. It's a particularly interesting read, more for the sheer ignorance and comic value of the article.
The 10 most important points:

1. What is a paedophile? (USA spelling: pedophile)
A person who is sexually attracted to children.

2. Are women who enjoy breastfeeding children paedophiles?
Yes they are, because they feel sexually aroused with breastfeeding and some even admit this has led to orgasm. But even if the female clitoris, vagina, ovaries and uterus didn't exist, breasts are sexual in nature, not only because they can provide high physical pleasure in a more sustained manner than the clitoris and the vagina, but also because the mother craves physical contact with the child, eg she wants to have her breasts sucked, and uses the child to satisfy her cravings. This is not love, this is lust. Many women become so addicted that they carry on breastfeeding their children until they are 8 or more years, most in secret. This is not acceptable and is child abuse. Moreover the children are very likely to behave like the mother when they grow up, and the spiral of paedophilia will continue.

3. What are the sexual organs in a woman?
Breasts, clitoris and vagina. They are connected and can communicate with each other and can all give high sexual physical pleasure. Breasts are sexual in nature, just like the clitoris and vagina are. They crave for physical contact and specially sucking. For example, oral sex between adults covers sucking the breasts, sucking the clitoris, sucking the penis. If a woman wants breast physical pleasure she should find another adult to have fun with, not a child.

4. Why is it that some people say that breast milk is best - is it true?
No, it is not true. In fact breast milk has many drawbacks: 1) the mother cannot accurately judge if the child is drinking enough for growth on a day to day basis. 2) cow's milk can be formulated to be just as nutritious or better than breast milk in a consistent manner, eg the mother's milk will vary in quality according to her general health (it is a known fact that diseases like for example AIDS from HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) can be transmitted through breast milk and if a child is breastfed by the wrong mother (or the biological mother is known to have one or more infectious diseases), tests are undertaken to find out if the child has been infected), formula milk is always the same and since it has been ultra heat treated (the ready made type in cartons), it is more safe. Some types of formula milk have prebiotics, special nutrients that are similar to the ones found in some fruit and vegetables and can strengthen the immune system. Moreover after a brief period on formula milk (or if preferred breast milk expressed or pumped into a bottle) some mothers are able to give their babies diluted sterilised or ultra heat treated (UHT) cow's milk, and even add suitable for babies oats or rice milk to the diluted cow's milk, plus suitable for babies, eg very small doses, of extra vitamins and minerals, and the babies flourish and grow well. The main thing is to consult a pedologist regarding the water content of the milk, since babies need to drink enough water, and so on. Diluted home made fruit juices and vegetable soups well sieved and put in a bottle are all part of a baby's healthy diet. In fact, the mother and father should have been eating the right diet at least a year before conception of the baby (plenty of fruit and vegetables as part of a balanced diet) and if applicable should have stopped smoking, drinking alcohol and eating junk food to ensure that sperm and egg quality were at their best and more likely to produce a healthy child. 3) With breastfeeding the father cannot share in feeding the children and may feel left out. 4) The mother becomes addicted to breastfeeding and it can affect her relationship with the father. 5) The mother spends most of her time breastfeeding (some 20 times a day or every half hour), which hinders her and the children intellectually. 6) The father may begin sexually abusing the children because he feels the mother is abusing them with her addiction to breastfeeding. Mutual respect is eroded. Moreover the mother may end up having full oral sex with the children, eg involving the sucking of all sexual organs, and some convicted paedophiles and rapists have admitted that their mothers gave them and expected oral sex. It is clear that breastfeeding is the root of most sexual evil, including rape between brothers and sisters and rape by strangers.

5. Why is it that many people find breastfeeding in public disgusting?
Because they sense there is a sexual element to breastfeeding and that children are being abused.

6. But if most mammals breastfeed, isn't it what nature intended?
Nature is both good and evil. The human brain is complex and capable of making a better choice due to science and technology. The right thing to do is to choose good and not use children as sexual objects.

7. But most children seem to want and enjoy the breast?
Children are born ignorant and will adapt to what is given to them. If a child is fed from birth on formula milk (or if preferred breast milk expressed or pumped into a bottle), he/she will not want or miss the breast. He/she will end up more independent (feeding himself/herself with the bottle) and will get the benefit of being fed by both parents, not just one.

8. Is it true that breast milk helps with a higher IQ in children?
No, the opposite is true. The child (just like the mother) becomes obsessed with the breast and has less interest in his/her surroundings. Breastfeeding on demand not only impairs the intellectual progress of the mother, but also of the children. Moreover, there is biological intelligence and acquired intelligence. Biological intelligence is based on healthy eggs and sperm from parents and grandparents that have lived a healthy lifestyle with plenty of fruit and vegetables. Acquired intelligence has to do with the learning process of a baby. The more intellectual stimulation a baby gets the more connections the brain creates and the more intelligence.

9. Who wrote this page, a woman or a man?
A woman.

10. What advice would you give to women who breastfeed?
Give it up. Be addicted to love, eg helping your child with his/her learning of the world, teaching him/her right from wrong, playing with your child games that may improve his/her intellectual abilities. Research has shown that is never too early to help a child intellectually. For example, even in the womb some babies like to listen to soothing music and their brains can store memories. Lusting after children for sexual gratification is paedophilia and breastfeeding should be made illegal. Men paedophiles are taken to court if they sexually abuse children, women paedophiles should suffer the same fate. If a woman is still keen on giving a child breast milk, use breast pumps to extract the milk or express the milk and put it in a bottle. Resist temptation. Don't use children as sexual objects.

If you have any comments, please send an email to the Anti Breastfeeding Campaign. Click on Message at the top of this page.
NOTES:
1. Please don't say: "Virgin Mary breastfed, was she a paedophile?" How could a virgin have a baby without sex in those days? IMPOSSIBLE. If she enjoyed breastfeeding, she was a paedophile, and she definitely had sex.
2. Please don't say: "God made breasts for babies." Wait a minute, did you forget that the devil also exists? Breasts were very likely to be designed by the devil, to trap you and ensnare you and get you to lust after children. THINK ABOUT THIS: There are TWO gods, one good, the other bad. BUT THEY BOTH HAVE PLENTY OF POWER. Who are you going to follow?
3. Please don't say: "Whatever next, an anti vagina campaign?" Yeah, you are quite right. How about a PRO CLONING campaign? You reproduce by dividing in two, like bacteria do. You make a copy of yourself, like identical twins do. Much better than all the mess and abuse of sex and sexual organs, and let's face it more utterly DIVINE.
4. Please don't say: "The bible this and the bible that." The bible is just full of sickening lies. Most of it a work of fiction (miracles, resurrections and so on). But then fiction is more popular than fact. I bet is the devil in you. And no, this has nothing to do with atheism since there is definitely good and evil. Is just that the truth is not in the bible. What did you say? That your mom believes in the bible? And I say to you, use your own brain lady. Use a magnifying glass. Find all the lies.

One of many copies online

So yes... my first port of call today is to phone the police and report lolzabeth for paedophilia, wait and watch them laugh and ridicule me for such a ridiculous claim...

But let me get serious, WHO the hell does this person think she is? yes, thats right it is a female writing this. WOW... What deep dark secrets is she hiding to really think that breast feeding is an act of paedophilia and child abuse.

Now I am one for breast feeding, I believe it is important, however I do not force it upon people or look bellow people for not doing it. But this campaign is just pure idiocy at it's best.

What are your thoughts and opinions on this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I got down to point 5 before i gave up reading. Im actually speechless at how ridicuous this is, i dont even know where to start!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    I got down to point 5 before i gave up reading. Im actually speechless at how ridicuous this is, i dont even know where to start!!!

    Same here! What utter fool wrote that?! :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That is one seriously messed up opinion. (the quote in the first post) I see nothing wrong with breastfeeding - there are many advantages to it.
    formula milk is always the same and since it has been ultra heat treated (the ready made type in cartons), it is more safe.

    Is there any scientific proof about it being more safe?

    The stuff about the parents abusing the child/ren is rubbish too - surely in a few cases that's true; but I imagine in the majority it's not.

    I have never thought about breasfeeding as sexual and never will do - it's a natural way of feeding a baby.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive seen this years ago. I guess the thing about the internet is it gives a platform for all sorts of loons
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I chuckled. How do people like this make it through life?

    Presumably the author also thinks that the actual birth is an act of paedophilia, since the child gets pushed down (OMG) a vagina. Isn't that where the penis should go? I might faint.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh noes :( I can never look into my mothers eyes again. I couldn't even defend myself, she just had her way with me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I sent a message of complain to that site, I think posts like that are despicable.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    Oh noes :( I can never look into my mothers eyes again. I couldn't even defend myself, she just had her way with me.

    Quick ... go to the police
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote: »
    Quick ... go to the police

    What about all the things Strubbles has done to me ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you had written that, surely suicide would quickly follow?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kaff wrote: »
    Presumably the author also thinks that the actual birth is an act of paedophilia, since the child gets pushed down (OMG) a vagina.

    Ummm, which is why mothers should elect to have a cesarean?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
    Ummm, which is why mothers should elect to have a cesarean?

    The incision for a section is pretty low down. There's still a very real chance you'd brush past pubes on the way out!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Or past the breast on the way up... the only way not to be a paedophile is to never have children..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wonder if the author of that piece was breastfed?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Na. That's why they wrote it. Jealousy. I think I should've put this in waste time. Lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG she's so right, I had never thought of it like that before.... NOT. How bloody ridiculous.
    Next someone will be saying breastfed girls become lesbians, as they become obsessed with breasts and breastfed boys will all fancy women for the same reason. Which would be as ridiculous of course.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So it's someone who's saying that the bible is full of rubbish yet still believes in the devil? What a strange twisted person. And I'm surprised a woman supposedly wrote that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    And I'm surprised a woman supposedly wrote that.

    Why so?

    With such twisted and odd views as that, it could be either male or female, either way they have issues.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG I should be locked up clearly.

    I'd like to see her come and get my baby to sleep without a feed first and not crying.

    (though she goes to sleep fine for the nanny - why is that?)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wyetry wrote: »
    OMG I should be locked up clearly.

    I'd like to see her come and get my baby to sleep without a feed first and not crying.

    (though she goes to sleep fine for the nanny - why is that?)

    I thought that. Ours is the same. Fine with me but not the wife. Lolz says its because baby can smell the milk. Therefore wants it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote: »
    Lolz says its because baby can smell the milk. Therefore wants it.

    She's right.

    How can they concentrate on going to sleep when they're being held by someone who smells like tasty, tasty milk?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yay I knew something smart... *dances*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is something that will stick in my mind now and taint a wonderful experience when I have a baby. This is why I don't read the paper, the nasty stuff sticks with me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was bottol fed, my mum thought breast feeding was wrong! Don't know why though :?

    I gor bored reading it after 3 I was speechless as well, I think this is just a pile a cr*p to be honest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Did she not realise that, breasts, were um, designed for um feeding babies? The whole reason they are actually there for. And it hardly paedophilic having a baby drinking from your breast, seriously they can't even remember it when they're old. I certainly can't. And all that's going through the baby's mind is "Food".
    So what if a mother orgasms or get pleasure from breast feeding. It's hardly their fault that the breasts are also a sexual organ. And it's not exactly the baby that's turning them on, they don't look at it going 'oh you sexy baby... i want to....'. More like, i'm going to feed you, and have a romp with the husband while you sleep.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fuuubar wrote: »
    More like, i'm going to feed you, and have a romp with the husband while you sleep.

    yeah I blooming wish, doesn't work that way :( :crying: LOL.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't realise breastfeeding gave women orgasms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote: »
    yeah I blooming wish, doesn't work that way :( :crying: LOL.

    What, the romping, or the sleeping? :p
    I didn't realise breastfeeding gave women orgasms.

    I think it's a pretty rare thing. Your hormones are supposed to make feeding pleasurable - nature wants you to nurture your young, after all - but in my experience it's a warm and cuddly pleasure, not a sexy one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kaff wrote: »
    What, the romping, or the sleeping? :p

    BOTH.... :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kaff wrote: »
    I think it's a pretty rare thing. Your hormones are supposed to make feeding pleasurable - nature wants you to nurture your young, after all - but in my experience it's a warm and cuddly pleasure, not a sexy one.

    It does happen then!? I immediately called bullshit when I read it. Google's go to know the answer to this...

    EDIT: It looks like it's real: http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/orgasm_breastfe.htm. That is awesome! I love when the world turns out to be a little bit more intriguing than I thought.
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