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Why don't we all just pull each other and have sex?!
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I wouldn't say I'm "desperate", but I would easily pull, sleep with or go out with, the majority of girls my age - most people are attractive! So the question is, why doesn't this happen - why don't people just pull easily when they go to clubs? Why don't friends have sex with each other, for fun? Why don't single people date each other? I've had quite a bit of experience but get rejected about 10 times as often as I "score". I'm fairly attractive, why don't girls want a bit of fun? Why would they rather remain single with no action than have a bit of fun with a guy? Why not just date freely rather than being so picky and turning down potential opportunities?
It would answer my question if I'm the anomaly in that I would easily pull most girls I know, I'm attracted to anyone whose fairly good-looking, which I would say is most girls here in London my age who go out to bars and clubs. Is this not the case for others - you're only attracted to a small proportion of people to the extent you'd pull / sleep with / date them??
Sorry for the slightly random rant lol. I'm just thinking all my close female friends, I'm friends with them by default, and when we're both single there should be no reason why we don't have a bit of fun!
It would answer my question if I'm the anomaly in that I would easily pull most girls I know, I'm attracted to anyone whose fairly good-looking, which I would say is most girls here in London my age who go out to bars and clubs. Is this not the case for others - you're only attracted to a small proportion of people to the extent you'd pull / sleep with / date them??
Sorry for the slightly random rant lol. I'm just thinking all my close female friends, I'm friends with them by default, and when we're both single there should be no reason why we don't have a bit of fun!
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call me old fashioned but i'd much prefer to sleep with someone i'm already in a relationship with rather than some randomer... still... each to their own.
Shagging your mate because your both single? Hmm I think you'd end up losing lot of friends !!
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Most people aren't that 'casual' about sex. I'm certainly not - sex to me, is something that people should do when they're in a relationship, not just with a stranger. I could never sleep with someone I met in a club that night, it just seems so wrong to me.
If that's what gets you off, then good luck to you....
why do you suppose that is i wonder :chin: ... :rolleyes:
I'm not bound by any norms. I'm sure if I wanted to kiss a friend I wouldn't not do it because of what is normal and what isn't normaly. I wouldn't do it because it would just be plain weird.
I don't mind going out there and kissing random strangers (although in the past years I do this less and less than when I was younger) but my friends, nah, it just wouldn't be right.
what do you think they'd say?
Do you have a sister? How would you feel if she wanted to kiss you as a sign of affection all the time? (and I don't mean in a family kinda way)
Not for me. I don't want to have sex with my family or my friends.
Because nearly all my friends are in relationships and the ones that aren't, I'm not interested in at all. It also sounds wrong.
No. In the last 3 years, I've only really found 1, maybe 2 people attractive.
":no: " as in NO i do not find most people attractive. actually i find fairly few.
Are you sure it's good for her?
each to their own.
Why would you find something like acceptable?
Do you have any respect for women or not?
for some incredibly desperate, shallow, sex crazed people there isn't