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What Do Women Want?
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Totally open question .. answer as you see fit as long as it ain't no middle of the road wish washy politically correct answer.
BTW please note this thread was originally posted in Anything goes .. not relationships cos for all I know someone might answer - women want a good career or world peace.
And for all the guys there - what do men want - they want women - they dunno how to get them or what to do with them once they have them .. but that's basically what men want ..
BTW please note this thread was originally posted in Anything goes .. not relationships cos for all I know someone might answer - women want a good career or world peace.
And for all the guys there - what do men want - they want women - they dunno how to get them or what to do with them once they have them .. but that's basically what men want ..
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And a rabbit.
A puppy
I've never really made a girl properly happy for any length of time, so it's obviously not Bri-namite :crying: :crying: :crying:
A bloke should give me physically: Lots of hugs, kisses, similar sex drive, be strong enough to protect me when needed,
Out of life (comes before finding the man): good career, comfortable lifestyle, good friends surrounding me, general happiness in myself and life.
:yes: Sums it all up perfectly for me!!
I'll tell you something women DO NOT necessarily want straight away, if at all, with you (and all the men I've come across seem to assume women do):
Marriage, kids, massive commitment and a little cottage with a white picket fence!!!
Seems the moment a girl seems remotely interested, the bloke freaks out and assumes THAT'S what she's angling for - with him! Sometimes, girls just want to take it slow, keep it casual and have a good time too, y'know!! :rolleyes:
jk
Ask me tomorrow and it could be something entirely different.
I love that
Nah what do i want. Fuck knows. Money or summat?
Spot on
for guys to just randomly text/call just to say 'hi' and say they love you
lots of hugs and kisses
to not feel used but still have good sex
to be walked/driven home after a date
to not be ignored when his mates are there
guys to buy them presents e.g. flowers for no reason but to show they care
to be told how beautiful they are and that they look nice
for a guy to be interested in them rather than just how they look
have a laugh
What the hell? I can garuntee you quite a few ladies on here would disagree with you about being spanked... Or is this what you want from your girlfriend?
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Hey, there's no denying that being spanked is what some women will want in the right place at the right time. No objections there. But find me a woman whose want is to be "told off" and I'll show you a liar or somebody whose been paid off or somebody who has an issue or three. Now if I thought you meant being told off in some kinky way then that'd be different, or I thought you meant a blazing row followed by some hot lovin' then that's another story entirely... but told off? That's a resounding no from me, and I can say with a large degree of confidence it'd be a resounding no from womankind in general, too.
Personally speaking, if I thought my boyfriend was engineering a disagreement into some kind of power struggle where he could "hug me" and "take me sexually" then I'd take him down. Not in the good way. Being told no isn't sexual for me, being manipulated into the role of the 'wayward girl who just wants to be told no' wouldn't be for me at all.
But obviously you have met ladies for whom this is a turn on, so fair enough...
Sometimes I think he's having shits and giggles by enraging a bunch of internet-women, but on the other hand you are sure he's convinced enough in the diarrhea he babbles to start a sect about it.
It's wonderful.
brb
You do realise that women are people too? Just to clarify...
I had no idea that you could get relationship advice from the Brothers Grimm. I guess it's along the lines of "If you are a dwarf, find 6 other vertically challenged men and all live together. Then a hot brunette will come live with you. And you can 'accidently' walk in on her in the shower."