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Re: Am I doing enough?
Hello @FordRanger i can relate to the struggles of trying to get a job and how hard it is to hear responses after submitting applications. I think I have spoken to you on previous discussions about this but another option I wanted to add on was maybe even look for a temporary job? I’ve seen jobs before of workplaces wanting someone to work for a short term period to cover illnesses for example. This can be very short like a few weeks or it can be even be quite a few months. Obviously getting a permanent role would be the most ideal option but the temporary work will allow you to gain a bit of experience and allow you to network and if a job came up in a company you already worked as a temp for then you’d have a good chance of securing that role.
It can often feel like you are the only person who can’t find a job but so many people are in the same boat. Could even be worth emailing or going into smaller businesses and asking if they have any jobs going. I know a few people who have managed to get a job this way.
Hope this helps.
It can often feel like you are the only person who can’t find a job but so many people are in the same boat. Could even be worth emailing or going into smaller businesses and asking if they have any jobs going. I know a few people who have managed to get a job this way.
Hope this helps.
Re: A guide to ARFID - Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder 💛
@Amy22 @AnonymousToe - you're both so right that there is definitely more awareness needed in this area. I've also seen quite a few posts about it on Instagram & TikTok lately so it's positive that the awareness is building.
@AnonymousToe - has your sister been able to reach out for any support with it?
@lunarcat522 - thank you so much for sharing what you're going through with us and I'm glad that you feel this post will be helpful in educating people on the topic. That was our aim! It sounds so tough to be having that difficult relationship with food at the moment. Had you heard of Beat's Hummingbird online support group before? It might be worth checking this out as a way to talk to others who are experiencing the same things. You're deserving of that support.
@AnonymousToe - has your sister been able to reach out for any support with it?
@lunarcat522 - thank you so much for sharing what you're going through with us and I'm glad that you feel this post will be helpful in educating people on the topic. That was our aim! It sounds so tough to be having that difficult relationship with food at the moment. Had you heard of Beat's Hummingbird online support group before? It might be worth checking this out as a way to talk to others who are experiencing the same things. You're deserving of that support.
Gemma
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Re: Struggling to sleep
Hey @FordRanger - yes of course! Another idea that I've found pretty effective is mindfulness meditation. It helps to give me head space when I'm feeling worried or stressed, and detached from those heightened emotions. There are apps like Headspace that are great for this 
Azziman
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Re: Just a quick hello!
Hi @Cosycore_Witch welcome to the mix! I also love listening to music - who's your favourite artist/your favourite song? What shows and books do you like? I'm really into reading but don't often find the time!
Re: I did it again TW: kinks
I am feeling much much better now and I think I was just really anxious at the time but I am starting to tell myself that reading those stories are okay and that there is nothing bad about reading them as long as I am not harming anyone or myself.
Hey @Amy22 I've been on the boards a bit recently and loved seeing your comment here so wanted to chime in just to say what a huge step this is because I know this has been something that has been bothering you a lot for a while so just wanted to congratulate you on this! It's one thing to try to take this on board from comments and a whole other ball game attempting to change your mindset - it's incredible to see that you're starting to do this, and so quickly! Just wanted to acknowledge the progress you've made, it might seem small to you but from an outsider perspective it seems pretty monumental so well done!
I know it's rough and things won't always be smooth sailing but try to remember moments like this, you've shown that you have the strength to not let the negative thoughts win. We're all rooting for you