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Re: I don't want to go pub on the weekend
FordRanger wrote: »FordRanger wrote: »AnonymousToe wrote: »You don’t have to go! Perhaps you could come up with something you’d like to do, and then invite people to that? So you get to decide what it is
@AnonymousToe I'd rather just do the first part then just go home.
thats ok then! im sure ur friends would appreciate that. and even if they don't it's ur life and ur choice. do what makes u happy and put urself firsy
@yana Tbh, I've messaged that is it OK just to do the football and this guy said no the original plan was to go football in the morning, go home and come pub in the evening again to watch the United game. Might have to just make something up and say my family want to watch the football with me or I could say which is potentially true that I'm too tired to come back out for the pub part. What do you think?
you could say either, a lof of the time i come up w excuses but i tbink they'd also understand if u just told them u weren't feeling up to it
Re: Sculpture I made like, 2 years ago?
HE IS SO COOL omg how long did tbat take you? thays fr so cool omg
Re: Sculpture I made like, 2 years ago?
WOAH he is so cool!! And he has a very nice rosette 
richly deserved!
How long did it take you to make him? Looks like a lot of work!
richly deserved!How long did it take you to make him? Looks like a lot of work!
sputnik
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Re: Not feeling 100 percent well
Hey there,
Good to know that you do other things and not just job searching! I'm not very good at coming up with routines either but for me, my weekly routine often involves:
I don't do all things from the list everyday but I do try to schedule them so that I do them every few days. Not sure if this is any help to you. But in general, I find that doing a mixture of things can help to take my mind off dwelling on negative thoughts and helps me to feel a bit better about myself.
It's really good to hear that you have an interest in cars. Keep an eye out for events in your area though- there might be some free car events (in my area there was a vintage car event in a local park which was free to attend, perhaps there are some things like that in your area?). I understand the feeling of needing money to do things though. But I like that you are also trying to find things you can do e.g. go out in the garden to enjoy the warmer weather.
Hang in there and best wishes with the job hunt!
Good to know that you do other things and not just job searching! I'm not very good at coming up with routines either but for me, my weekly routine often involves:
- Exercise (going out for a walk, or doing some exercises at home)
- Job search (searching for jobs, editing my CV and drafting cover letters)
- Volunteer (online or in person)
- Free time (hobbies or whatever I want do)
- Self-care (taking care of hygiene)
- Chores (it's a good idea to keep productive and on top of every day tasks such as making your bed, tidying/cleaning your room or helping out with stuff around the house).
- Family time (or any form of socialising)
I don't do all things from the list everyday but I do try to schedule them so that I do them every few days. Not sure if this is any help to you. But in general, I find that doing a mixture of things can help to take my mind off dwelling on negative thoughts and helps me to feel a bit better about myself.
It's really good to hear that you have an interest in cars. Keep an eye out for events in your area though- there might be some free car events (in my area there was a vintage car event in a local park which was free to attend, perhaps there are some things like that in your area?). I understand the feeling of needing money to do things though. But I like that you are also trying to find things you can do e.g. go out in the garden to enjoy the warmer weather.
Hang in there and best wishes with the job hunt!
Maisy
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Re: About itvx n britbox
Hi @ellie2000
As far as I know it's got all the same shows on there, it's just moved to ITV and they've changed the name of it for some reason, but it's pretty much exactly the same as what Britbox was
As far as I know it's got all the same shows on there, it's just moved to ITV and they've changed the name of it for some reason, but it's pretty much exactly the same as what Britbox was
sputnik
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Re: Y
@ellie2000 i dont have anyrhing useful tonsau but ik how much of a shir feeling this is and i hope things get better soon 
