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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 04.08
@eylah thank you 
here for you too.
Just cooking lunch. definitely feeling calmer today than yesterday, the hormonal rage has settled down too, which is a big win
Bless, I just need to keep theo calm. He doesn't like storms.
here for you too.Just cooking lunch. definitely feeling calmer today than yesterday, the hormonal rage has settled down too, which is a big win
Bless, I just need to keep theo calm. He doesn't like storms.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 04.08
Good morning all,
The storm is picking up here, we're not even in an amber zone but it's pretty strong and the doggo is bricking it. Every time he hears wind he jumps off the couch bless him. So trying to keep him calm .. and myself calm, I hate storms because of the time we lost power for 26 hours. So far so good with the power. My family are travelling back today and I did everything I could to persuade them to delay it for one day but they ignored me because it's not bad where they are, think they're gonna get a shock when they get up here
The storm is picking up here, we're not even in an amber zone but it's pretty strong and the doggo is bricking it. Every time he hears wind he jumps off the couch bless him. So trying to keep him calm .. and myself calm, I hate storms because of the time we lost power for 26 hours. So far so good with the power. My family are travelling back today and I did everything I could to persuade them to delay it for one day but they ignored me because it's not bad where they are, think they're gonna get a shock when they get up here
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 04.08
@eylah
I'm not doing so well to be honest. How are you?
I'm not doing so well to be honest. How are you?
Re: Appreciation Thread
This is super sweet Redemption and the Community values you too and I'm sure will appreciate these lovely words! Happy Birthday too by the way, hope it's a good one and you got the speaker you wanted
Leyla
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Appreciation Thread
Hello everyone,
I just wanted to share how truly grateful I am for this community. Over a while, things haven’t been easy. There have been ups and downs, moments of doubt, and even times I thought about walking away. I’ve seen changes and people come and go, but one thing that’s stayed the same is how supportive and kind this space is. I did an appreciation thread last year, but I felt it was time to do another—to remind everyone how much I value this place, and to thank the newer members who’ve shown me support since then. Every kind word, virtual hug, and reply has meant more than I can say. The mods, the community team, and every member here you’re all amazing and help make this space feel like home.
I’m still working on getting into work and figuring out where I’m going. I’m not quite there yet, but I’m getting closer. Getting into work doesn’t happen overnight, and life isn’t always straightforward. There have been setbacks and slow moments, but this community has helped me stay grounded and keep going. The encouragement I’ve received here has played a huge part in whatever progress I’ve made so far, and I know it’ll continue to be part of my journey forward.
To anyone who’s struggling or feeling alone, please know you’re not on your own. We might not be able to PM anymore, but I’ll be around on the venting threads if anyone needs to talk. Sometimes just knowing someone’s there makes all the difference. Thank you all again for being such a positive and supportive presence you’ve helped more than you know, and I’m proud to be a part of this community. I’ll see you all around really soon. Please take care of yourselves and be kind to yourselves.
I just wanted to share how truly grateful I am for this community. Over a while, things haven’t been easy. There have been ups and downs, moments of doubt, and even times I thought about walking away. I’ve seen changes and people come and go, but one thing that’s stayed the same is how supportive and kind this space is. I did an appreciation thread last year, but I felt it was time to do another—to remind everyone how much I value this place, and to thank the newer members who’ve shown me support since then. Every kind word, virtual hug, and reply has meant more than I can say. The mods, the community team, and every member here you’re all amazing and help make this space feel like home.
I’m still working on getting into work and figuring out where I’m going. I’m not quite there yet, but I’m getting closer. Getting into work doesn’t happen overnight, and life isn’t always straightforward. There have been setbacks and slow moments, but this community has helped me stay grounded and keep going. The encouragement I’ve received here has played a huge part in whatever progress I’ve made so far, and I know it’ll continue to be part of my journey forward.
To anyone who’s struggling or feeling alone, please know you’re not on your own. We might not be able to PM anymore, but I’ll be around on the venting threads if anyone needs to talk. Sometimes just knowing someone’s there makes all the difference. Thank you all again for being such a positive and supportive presence you’ve helped more than you know, and I’m proud to be a part of this community. I’ll see you all around really soon. Please take care of yourselves and be kind to yourselves.
Re: Anything new at the cinema?
Fantastic Four was pretty good @eylah @Amy22 ! I didn't really know much about the characters beforehand but it gives you all the context you need at the beginning. Would recommend it !
Katie
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