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Re: August achievements, with a theme of altruism!
@toffuna101 sounds like you've had a busy month of learning, so glad its paid off for you!
@Amy22 It's great to hear that you've still been able to achieve quite a lot in such a busy month, it's nice to hear that going to the coffee morning club has been helping improve your confidence
I thought I'd add some of my achievements this month too:
- I've been focusing on nurturing relationships that bring me joy this month, its been freeing to stop putting energy into one sided friendships and focus on the people that really matter to me
- I moved in to my university accommodation once again, decided to give myself some time this year to really settle in and readjust to city living
- My friend also moved in to our accommodation pretty early on so we've both been helping keep each other sane in a relatively quiet flat
Re: my nails 🩵
Matthew_04 wrote: »They look lovely @eylah
I love the combination of the blue and silver, how long did it take to get them done?
thankyou matthew
they took 45 minutes. 
eylah
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Re: Condition and hair loss :(
@Azziman im going to the hospital tommorow to speak to the specialist :')
Rose113
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Re: im at breaking point.
Hey @eylah, just wanted to check in on how you're doing today? It sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment, and can understand how that can feel so overwhelming. I'm sorry to hear the way that your dad is treating you, it isn't right or fair on you. You're doing ever so well to keep going. Take things one at a time, and hopefully the storm calms down soon for you
I can imagine that the blood test might come quite as a shock, especially when it came out of nowhere like it did. Waiting for results like this can feel quite worrying, but it's out of your control now. Let the medical staff do their testing for now, and once they give you the answer, you can figure out what needs to be done then. And through this whole period, we'll be here to support you every step of the way. You're not alone
Like others have mentioned, you're absolutely allowed to use this space to express how you're feeling - we're here to listen to you, because your feelings are valid and you matter. It's okay to ask for help when we're in a difficult situation, just as we'd be willing to help a friend when they're in need. Lots of people need help, but that in no way makes your need for help any less valid. There's enough people to help everyone, and we're here to support you
im not gd rn bc everything is to much for me to handle bc there high chance might have cancer so its to hard to let’health ppl’ do there job bc im on edge.. i feel like im not allowed bc idk i just don’t feel like i am everything is so hard im so alone and i give up with everything. ( safe no suicidal. ).
eylah
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Re: im at breaking point.
Also I hope the tests went well and your doing ok I bet that was frightening for you to hear especially if you have been having pelvic pain. The main thing is that the doctors will try their absaloute best to figure out what's going on and will help you all the way
i’m just scared bc im to young to have cancer so its terrifying bc i have sm stress atm i rly do not need this on my back bc im so exhausted mentally end physically. thankyou amy.
eylah
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Re: im at breaking point.
Im sorry to hear that you have been going through so much right now. Im always here if you ever need someone to talk to
i miss him sm its very hard bc i only had him to talk to now have noone irl. thankyou
im not gd but its ok.eylah
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Re: Struggling to cope with feelings and feeling stuck
Laura_tigger82 wrote: »We can really hear how important the non-judgemental approach is for you at the moment @Radical. It is positive to hear that you have found this is available through contact with Samaritans, even if it is always available for your friends.
You do not deserve to be judged, especially by those who care about you and you care about. However, it can also be a lack of understanding sometimes. We can hear how disheartening this is though - is there anything which might help you to manage this? We are also here to listen to you and not to judge you
Yeah alot of the time I think my friends and family just don't quite understand how I feel. I never have felt they've done it on purpose or with malicious intent but I'm just not sure how I'm supposed to communicate my feelings to them. Especially my family. I've tried talking to.them, writing it down for them to read etc and it just doesn't seem to click with them I don't think. Not only that considering this is all over a messy relationship/misunderstanding with a girl from a few years ago it's also super embarrassing to bring it up to them.
Radical
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