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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
@DonnerKebab i contacted shout and yeah now I’m never using them again
Was meant to have aerial however my body can’t tolerate heat so if I pass out on the hoop then could break my spine so had to cancel that so ultimately not great not to mention I don’t want to be here and I keep being asked why I can do to be safe even though I am safe and I keep ignoring cos idk how to answer
Was meant to have aerial however my body can’t tolerate heat so if I pass out on the hoop then could break my spine so had to cancel that so ultimately not great not to mention I don’t want to be here and I keep being asked why I can do to be safe even though I am safe and I keep ignoring cos idk how to answer
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
@DonnerKebab no it’s fine
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
@shannon_164 i was just gonna add at the end of the support chat that I know how hopeless you feel right now. I always had my carer responsibility keeping me chained here, so even when i had no hope and couldn't see thing ever getting better, with no light at the end of the tunnel, i still had something chaining me here. But over time, admittedly years, things started to change. I started to see glimpses. And i'm not fully out of it myself yet, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I think for you, your at rock bottom, unable to see light at the end of the tunnel right now. And your hurting because of what happened and what's been ruined for you. I touched a bit about it a while back, but my mum "accidentally" got counter terror to investigate me, which was a black mark on my record and even though nothing came of it, it was still something on my record that had happened and impeded my plans to work at MI5. I only realised the impact when i hit 19 and had a mental breakdown from it, and cried myself to sleep for 3 weeks straight. But it did get better, even though i couldn't envision it doing so at the time.
I'm sending you a hug, and just want to say, i know it seems hopeless and you feel betrayed, but you are an angel, and there's light at the end of the tunnel, even though you can't see it. You've got my anonymous email (you should create an anonymous one yourself, and drop us an email whether you want to vent or just talk, or get advice). I'm here for you like you was for me friend. You deserve the world of support and care.
PS, i'm working on creating an over 25's version of the mix (not the mix exactly or linked to it, but something for over 25's when they age out of here.). It won't be done for a fair amount of time, but i'd love for you to join when it's completed)
I think for you, your at rock bottom, unable to see light at the end of the tunnel right now. And your hurting because of what happened and what's been ruined for you. I touched a bit about it a while back, but my mum "accidentally" got counter terror to investigate me, which was a black mark on my record and even though nothing came of it, it was still something on my record that had happened and impeded my plans to work at MI5. I only realised the impact when i hit 19 and had a mental breakdown from it, and cried myself to sleep for 3 weeks straight. But it did get better, even though i couldn't envision it doing so at the time.
I'm sending you a hug, and just want to say, i know it seems hopeless and you feel betrayed, but you are an angel, and there's light at the end of the tunnel, even though you can't see it. You've got my anonymous email (you should create an anonymous one yourself, and drop us an email whether you want to vent or just talk, or get advice). I'm here for you like you was for me friend. You deserve the world of support and care.
PS, i'm working on creating an over 25's version of the mix (not the mix exactly or linked to it, but something for over 25's when they age out of here.). It won't be done for a fair amount of time, but i'd love for you to join when it's completed)
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »Hey @DonnerKebab you wanna chat?
Yeah mate, how are you? How was the session today?
@DonnerKebab I'm ok thanks, just on the bus back. It was ok if you mean the chat and the course was ok. Hope you're having a good day. I'm just on the bus heading home, I hate the bus man
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab
@shannon_164 you are as well. Since i've been on this mix, you are literally one of the first friends i've ever had in my life. And you've been so kind and caring for so many others, and i'm so sorry you got hurt instead of getting support. I'm always here and on email to reach out to about anything and support you the same way you have me and so many others. You are a literal angel of a person, and i'm always there to reach out to whenever, whenever you want to vent or just talk. Without any restrictions of shadow edits or anything.
You deserve a place to vent on without fear of any consequences or stuff getting ruined my friend.
aw🥹thank you so much! you deserve so so so much good in the world @DonnerKebab - pls never ever forget what a difference you make the the world
I'll promise that if you promise the same
And remember, drop an email whenever you want, even from an anonymous email account yourself to remain completely anonymous if you want, and just event whenever you feel like it. Doesn't matter if your silent for a month or a year, just drop an email whenever about whatever. You deserve to be able to vent to somebody without fear of getting things ruined for you. And you deserve to not be alone.
Re: (Masturbation & OCD) I can only orgasm to my intrusive thoughts please help
@Sian321 i feel disgusting and filthy. I would do anything to get rid of this issue. It feels like a cruel joke. I just want to enjoy my sexual fantasies in peace without it being intruded with intrusive thoughts. I feel like a fucking freak. And I’m scared it’s never gonna go away.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »@DonnerKebab good afternoon, how are you?
@Redemption hi redemption, i'm fine thanks, how are you?
@DonnerKebab glad you're fine, I'm ok just on my lunch break, hopefully I can atleast pop in to support chat for a bit. I'm just comparing myself to people a lot like the guy who runs the course is only 27 and I'm 23 going on to 24 not much younger. People are getting married, I saw someone who is getting married and I'm here single, no job, it's tough.
@Redemption i know that feeling. it's like on social media when you compare yourself to others and it leaves you feel a bit down. But all that matters is your better than you were yesterday. It's hard, but only compare yourself to who you were yesterday, and that way, your always improving. Others have different opportunities, different paths open to you might not. Only comparing yourself to yourself yesterday is fair.
Thanks @DonnerKebab yh its hard though, I made a thread about it all. I agree, sometimes it's about small steps, there's a girl called Zoe Crawley who does vids on tiktok and she said its small steps as time, she's lovely, she does a lot of vids on mental health etc. I agree, others get different chances or luck for example Tommy Fury a professional boxer he was born into a boxing famliy, it took hard work from him tbf but he got that opportunity to train etc, his bro is a heavy weight champion so he got a foundation to work on.